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How To Tell Your Sexuality

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I know you said don't ask, lol...But, I always called myself straight/A-sexual...Because I'd never actually do anything. But, I realized today, that all the guys I had 'liked'...I never actually felt...that way about them. If that makes sense. O.o
I got a weird feeling in my chest, and that's it.

Does that make me completely A-sexual?

>.< Sorry if this is in the wrong topic. I was going to make my own, but then saw this and didn't want to be flamed for making one. lol. >.<
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^ You got a wierd feeling in your chest so I imagine that there is something there. So maybe not completely asexual.
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QUOTE (Erin the Exuberant @ Apr 5 2009, 07:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well kissing and touching a boy is ew!
they have kooties dontcha know.



And hair. You can't leave that out.
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QUOTE (Feux Follet @ Apr 14 2009, 05:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
And hair. You can't leave that out.



generally most people also have hair ya know...
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Tbh, I don't think I'm bi, lesbian or straight. Lately I don't get butterflies around a hot guy, or a pretty girl. WTF am I then? My friend said I was asexual, wtf?
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Just means you're not attracted to anyone at the moment.
If you've gotten butterflies and attractions before, you're not asexual.
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QUOTE (Erin the Exuberant @ Apr 18 2009, 03:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just means you're not attracted to anyone at the moment.
If you've gotten butterflies and attractions before, you're not asexual.

Yaay! That's weird I got butterflies around my best friend and she's a girl. Even though I don't like girls that way.
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I think asexuality would be like being completely unaffected by somebody of the opposite sex coming on to you/being completely naked.

Although, it is possible to become asexual.
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I don't buy A-Sexuality.
I think it's natural instinct to reproduce, or find atleast something attractive.

Perhaps you two just needa find the right person for ya?
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QUOTE (No Quarter @ Apr 18 2009, 08:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't buy A-Sexuality.
I think it's natural instinct to reproduce, or find atleast something attractive.

Perhaps you two just needa find the right person for ya?



I think it's just incredibly low sex drive. Hey, if you're happy with it, go for it. If not we have all kinds of drugs and helpful hints for ya.
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im a 18 year old male, and i want to enjoy abit of fanny rather than alot of cock. what do i do?? i hate being gay its so sad.
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Ok, i'm gonna try to argue this point. There really is no straight/gay/lesbian/bi sexuality. There is your sexuality in actions, and your sexuality in your thoughts and fantasies. All of it is try - sexuality, with preferences. A straight guy might be "bi-curious" in his dreams, and lesbian girl could be "straight" in her dreams. Now we have to incorporate the fact that there are no absolutes in sexuality. Because the acts of sexuality will stem out of thoughts on sexuality and the position you're in. If two bi-curious guys were wasted and did it, but then felt that they didn't particularly enjoy it, that doesn't make them gay/bi or pretty much anything. If you are really interested in self-exploration in the area of sexuality and gender in general, then you could read something about ["doing" gender] ( google it up just like that ) and queer theory. And hell, make you're dreams reality, don't let them sit and get stagnant. Live life, be your self, be more self.
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this was helpful

thnx
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QUOTE (i!emo @ May 18 2009, 12:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ok, i'm gonna try to argue this point. There really is no straight/gay/lesbian/bi sexuality. There is your sexuality in actions, and your sexuality in your thoughts and fantasies. All of it is try - sexuality, with preferences. A straight guy might be "bi-curious" in his dreams, and lesbian girl could be "straight" in her dreams. Now we have to incorporate the fact that there are no absolutes in sexuality. Because the acts of sexuality will stem out of thoughts on sexuality and the position you're in. If two bi-curious guys were wasted and did it, but then felt that they didn't particularly enjoy it, that doesn't make them gay/bi or pretty much anything. If you are really interested in self-exploration in the area of sexuality and gender in general, then you could read something about ["doing" gender] ( google it up just like that ) and queer theory. And hell, make you're dreams reality, don't let them sit and get stagnant. Live life, be your self, be more self.

I am absolutely 110% sure of my sexuality.
I got drunk, and had a gay experiance before. But I never looked at it with any feeling of lust or any of that.

I see your point. But everything is a preference, music, ideals, foods, everything is merely a preference, and we are either born with these, or aquired. (Sexuality, you are born with however)
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thank u that really helped...
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you know, i like, like beavers and everything but i also like guys and girls! OMG! OH MY GOD! HAHA IM OBNOXIOUS LIKE YOUR MOM, NOW SUCK MY BEAVER D***!
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QUOTE (xXI Cry Blood For YouXx @ Jun 15 2009, 07:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
you know, i like, like beavers and everything but i also like guys and girls! OMG! OH MY GOD! HAHA IM OBNOXIOUS LIKE YOUR MOM, NOW SUCK MY BEAVER D***!

You tried to be funny, and failed.

Congrats on making yourself look like a gigantic asshole, moron.
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ive bee straight my whole life but the first day of highschool i got asked out by a girl and for the rest of the year ive had 3 other girls ask me out and 2 that tried to turn me gay for their friends that liked me...and i dont realy knw how i feel abt it. my gma is a total christian nazi so if i had a gf shed disown me...and later on in the year my completely gay crossdressing friend askd me to b his gf. hednever had a gf in his life and he was 18. so i wasnt sure if i should b coplimented bc i changed a gay gu, or insulted bc im so manly i attract a gay guy? its confusing. so is all this a sign that im destined to b gay? halp meh!!!
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QUOTE (charizard @ Jun 16 2009, 04:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ive bee straight my whole life but the first day of highschool i got asked out by a girl and for the rest of the year ive had 3 other girls ask me out and 2 that tried to turn me gay for their friends that liked me...and i dont realy knw how i feel abt it. my gma is a total christian nazi so if i had a gf shed disown me...and later on in the year my completely gay crossdressing friend askd me to b his gf. hednever had a gf in his life and he was 18. so i wasnt sure if i should b coplimented bc i changed a gay gu, or insulted bc im so manly i attract a gay guy? its confusing. so is all this a sign that im destined to b gay? halp meh!!!


For some reason, bolded irritated me a little. idk.

I wouldn't say people can turn you gay.
You're either gay or you're not. Only you yourself know [..or don't know].


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QUOTE (charizard @ Jun 16 2009, 03:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ive bee straight my whole life but the first day of highschool i got asked out by a girl and for the rest of the year ive had 3 other girls ask me out and 2 that tried to turn me gay for their friends that liked me...and i dont realy knw how i feel abt it. my gma is a total christian nazi so if i had a gf shed disown me...and later on in the year my completely gay crossdressing friend askd me to b his gf. hednever had a gf in his life and he was 18. so i wasnt sure if i should b coplimented bc i changed a gay gu, or insulted bc im so manly i attract a gay guy? its confusing. so is all this a sign that im destined to b gay? halp meh!!!



NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it only means some guy isnt sure if hes a girl who likes guys, or a guy who likes both, or whatever.
when u r a teenager, you have hormones surging around you, and you are not sure of anything, only that you are not sure.lol
if you like the guy...girl...whatever, then try it. girls like threesomes with two guys as well you know.
as for the girl-on-girl thing, either try it out, or bring them all together and tell them in no uncertain terms that you have no wish to go out with any of them, and make sure you give a 'because', because (lol) girls need that to truly understand and put into account what you are saying.



if what i am saying sounds like utter crap, then PLEASE say so. i have never had a girlfriend, i dont realy have any frinds (BEFORE they found my scars), and i am useless when it comes to people-skills. the german exchange student who lives with me at the moment is fascinated with learning about people, and making them do what she wants without them knowing, and her task she set for me was to get some social skills, and i intend to do that.
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