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Is it bad to actively seek abusive relationships...?


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Yes.


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Yes.

Why?


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Because you're on the path to self destruction.
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Because you're on the path to self destruction.

In English?


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That was english. Or have you already had a few too many blows to the head?
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That was english. Or have you already had a few too many blows to the head?

I was asking you to be specific dimwit... -.-'


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You're dimwitted if something simple like "on the path to self destruction" isn't self explanatory. She means it's bad because you're degrading yourself purposely. 


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Who says it's even about me...? What's so wrong with wanting to know things?


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No one said or even implied it was bad to ask. On the contrary, you would have been considered even more of a fool if you wouldn't have asked. I don't see anything more to be elaborated in what Lightning said - either you used the incorrect way to ask, or you're just being overly dense. People who seek out purposely abusive relationships will eventually get damaged, there's nothing to really comprehend about that. 


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Who says it's even about me...? What's so wrong with wanting to know things?

There's nothing wrong with wanting to gain knowledge; you just fail to understand what we're telling you, and I was using the universal "you"  since my statement applies to anyone looking for an abusive relationship.


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your question is too vague I don't really understand what you mean by that at all.


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I was asking you to be specific dimwit... -.-'

Ah here, don't call me a fucking dimwit. My statement was self explanatory.

Also you never said it wasn't about you, your original post was suggesting it was, so therefore people assumed it was. Don't call other people stupid because you didn't clarify the question in the first place.
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your question is too vague I don't really understand what you mean by that at all.

 

 

When I see your posts, the urge to stab people in the face is mighty strong. 


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I once had an abusive relationship. I don't understand why anyone would try to seek a relationship like that. My experience was that she started off as a great person in my eyes, but she got abusive gradually. It led to me drinking heavily, something I wish I never would have started. I didn't even end the relationship, I was let go when she found someone else that more conveniently met her lifestyle. Let me ask you a question OP. Why do you seek these harmful relationships? Why pick up bad apples that everyone else may have had a bite off, when there are better apples to be picked from the tree? I wish I would have had the balls to end the relationship when I should have, but I didn't. In turn, that messed up years of my life and harder depression. Do you really want to have horrible relationships mess with you physically and mentally? Please don't say that you would rather feel pain than feel nothing at all, cause I'm sure there's a lot of cancer patients that wish they couldn't feel pain. I don't wish to come off as someone who knows everything, or come off as trying to be a dick, because I really don't want someone to go through what I did. It pains me to see someone go down that road and ultimately do something to destroy themselves. I hope you realize this before it's too late and before you start living a life full of regret. 


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