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I'm 15 now and when I was 12 I dated someone 16 years old, almost dated someone 17 years old. Then when I was 13 I dated someone of 17. When I was 14 I dated someone who was 20 going on 21. Now I'm 15 and I date anyone that is comfortable dating and is about 10 years older than me. Cuz even tho I don't typically date any girl or guy older than me by 4-5 years, I have the feelings for a 22 year old. I honestly don't give two pars about age cuz it's really just a number. I just think that the maturity has to fit to ur liking. Appearantly I'm more mature than anyone at my age. I'm told that I'm around 20 cuz of how I act sometimes. But I think that there should always be something in the personality that matches and is ok for u.
I say screw some legal things cuz everyone has broken a law once in a while, just do what makes u feel happy and if she's underage then just don't try getting arrested :s

 

I'm so tired of this reasoning.


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Coming onto here at a young age was stupid, mostly because of all the stupid shit I said. So, imagining what some other pre-teen smartasses might have done makes me a bit terrified.

 

Yes, love is love, but when hormones and just puberty overall are thrown into that mix, you get a delousinal mix of fantasy. Not to mention when you add drugs and alchohol into the mix, it gets worse because then they usually think they're the top of the damn world.

 

Wait till puberty is over. Then see. Sorry if I sound like a broken record.


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I'm so tired of this reasoning.


Yes we know but I mean it's true. Just depends on how u want to look at it. I see some people r taking the law's side. Me and maybe some others rather just take the side that feels right to them. Some prefer logic over feeling
But now I'm curious. Alex tell me what u think about this since the reasoning is repeated
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Why not? I'll chip in my two cents. Just remember that it's only worth two cents, if that.


I'm 23, and this girl I have been talking with for the past few months is 18. Legally speaking, it's fair game. However, there are things that even I have to take into account before I look at pursuing a relationship with her. I'm a college senior when my next class starts on Monday, and she's starting college in the fall. I've got a year and a half left and by the time I start grad school, she'll only be halfway through her undergrad. Even if we're both legal adults, we're in slightly different stages of life right now. Not to mention there's still a gap between 18 and 23 that can't just be measured in years. There's a lot of experience that happened in the last 5 years of my life that has definitely contributed to shaping me into who I am today. There are references and jokes I make that she doesn't understand until I explain them to her, and vice-versa. Career-wise, I'm looking at becoming a family counselor, and she wants to be a medical translator. I'm already looking at starting to pay on my student loans, and she's looking at starting student loans to pay for her education. Those are all things I need to take into account when I ask myself the question, "Do I want to pursue a relationship with this girl?"

The idea of somebody who is 19 pursuing a relationship with somebody who is 14, to me, seems not only incompatible but appalling. There is a plethora of concerns. One is starting high school while the other is either in college or looking to start college. Has  the 14-year-old ever had a job? How many jobs has the 19-year-old had already? Is the older of the two ready to financially fund the relationship in addition to his own life? In the case of a 19-year-old pursuing a relationship with a 14-year-old, it's obvious that neither are emotionally healthy enough for a relationship with anybody yet. If the 19-year-old is insistent that he only finds himself attracted to younger girls, then perhaps he needs to wait a few years so he can pursue a relationship with a younger adult. To agree with Jess, the 14-year-old shouldn't even be dating yet anyway.

OP: I wouldn't say there's anything abnormal about being attracted to somebody a few years younger than you, but I would advise you to either find somebody who is 18+ or wait until that attraction is legally okay. Regardless of what you may think or feel, you're still bound by the laws of the land.


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Hi, I know my opinion means nothing but here goes nothing, Age is just numbers, time is just numbers, if you love someone go for it as long as you won't get killed for it... Sorry if this was a stupid post... ~Juliet
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