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The 22 year old should know better even if the 15 year old doesn't.

I dated a 24 year old when I was 16 -- it was all very exciting at the time. But looking back on it, I can see what a weirdo the guy was. The guy was constantly trying to get me into bed. He'd pick me up after school, we'd go hang out in his car on this deserted stretch of beach and make out for a half hour. Honestly, in retrospect -- so sketchy and weird. No wonder he couldn't get a woman his own age. At 16, I was just starting to date -- what the fuck did I know? I thought it was totally normal - this was what people who were into each other did. It never occurred to me that this dude really SHOULDN'T be into me, being in the 11th grade. It SHOULD, on the other hand, have occurred to him at 24.

Thank god I learned more from the experience than I lost because of it. Not everyone is so lucky.
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because they can buy their own liquor, I guess.
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QUOTE (Sarcastic_Guy @ Nov 9 2009, 06:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
because they can buy their own liquor, I guess.


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QUOTE (~xoX.Jessica.Cullen.Xox~ @ Nov 9 2009, 08:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You do not know that and you can't say "he's not". 



You're an idiot. They are looking after their young daughter from a very possible sexual predator.

Nikita, I'm sick of this thread now. You've been given plenty of good advice yet no doubt you'll continue to think you know best, so whatever.

I am honestly interested into what Nikita actually thinks about the advice we all have given her. Considering she hasn't posted since the 1st page I am just curious to know what she reckons now after she has read all this information.
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if her past posts are any indication, she probably just posted as a bid for attention, and when we arent' giving her the kind of attention she wants, she probably just backed out and proceeded to ignore us.
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QUOTE (xlilemokatiex @ Nov 8 2009, 07:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ignore everyone that says hes a pedo he can be classed as that but in this case hes not. You're inlove with him and he feels the same about you and if your parents dont understand that well they obviously dont want you to be happy so if they want you to be happy they must give him a chance if you're the happy one thats all that matters once you're a bit older the age gap wont even matter its just because your still in school or under 16. But also be careful because he may just be playing with you so test his love for you first and if he gives what you're looking for then go for it

Spoken like a true 12 year old, bravo.
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QUOTE (Finality @ Nov 9 2009, 07:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Spoken like a true 12 year old, bravo.


Insulted like a true 13 year old, *applauds*.

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QUOTE (Spartan @ Nov 9 2009, 07:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Insulted like a true 13 year old, *applauds*.

QUOTE (Spartan @ Nov 9 2009, 07:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Insulted like a true 13 year old, *applauds*.

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Quoted twice.

Fail.

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QUOTE (Spartan @ Nov 9 2009, 09:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Quoted twice.

Fail.

I was quoting in response to the quote. smile.gif
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I'm 13 and a half sad.gif
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you'll have to excuse kane. Gravity is still trying to exert it's power over his testicles.
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ITT: RABLERABLERABLERABLERABLERABLRERABLEREBALRABLERBLEARABLE

QUOTE (sentient @ Nov 8 2009, 09:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The 22 year old should know better even if the 15 year old doesn't.

I dated a 24 year old when I was 16 -- it was all very exciting at the time. But looking back on it, I can see what a weirdo the guy was. The guy was constantly trying to get me into bed. He'd pick me up after school, we'd go hang out in his car on this deserted stretch of beach and make out for a half hour. Honestly, in retrospect -- so sketchy and weird. No wonder he couldn't get a woman his own age. At 16, I was just starting to date -- what the fuck did I know? I thought it was totally normal - this was what people who were into each other did. It never occurred to me that this dude really SHOULDN'T be into me, being in the 11th grade. It SHOULD, on the other hand, have occurred to him at 24.

Thank god I learned more from the experience than I lost because of it. Not everyone is so lucky.



Wait... that isn't what people do on normal dates? D:
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QUOTE (Marijuana? @ Nov 9 2009, 10:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ITT: RABLERABLERABLERABLERABLERABLRERABLEREBALRABLERBLEARABLE

this covers maybe 90% of the popular threads here on EC
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QUOTE (Sarcastic_Guy @ Nov 9 2009, 06:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if her past posts are any indication, she probably just posted as a bid for attention, and when we arent' giving her the kind of attention she wants, she probably just backed out and proceeded to ignore us.

I have read everything that has been written.
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Did you take anything of the advice into consideration? Do you see why your parents may not exactly accept him?
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if you REALLY like him and know him, then i think you should be with him.
but... I know that you will get hurt, and i don't want anything to happen to you (i know we don't know eachothers)
but IF he is pedo and just want to take advantage of you
you should end it right away

okay... we don't know how he is to you
how he looks but.. you are 14 and he is 22!
i know this might sound awful and evil but you should face the fact what does a 22 year old man want from a 14 year old girl?

i hope you make the right decision and i really think that you should take our advices seriously,

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QUOTE (LikeIKnow @ Nov 12 2009, 05:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if you REALLY like him and know him, then i think you should be with him.
but... I know that you will get hurt, and i don't want anything to happen to you (i know we don't know eachothers)
but IF he is pedo and just want to take advantage of you
you should end it right away

okay... we don't know how he is to you
how he looks but.. you are 14 and he is 22!
i know this might sound awful and evil but you should face the fact what does a 22 year old man want from a 14 year old girl?

i hope you make the right decision and i really think that you should take our advices seriously,

take care tongue.gif

So she should be with him if she likes him but if he takes advantage of her she shouldn't be with him but you don't want her to get hurt but she should be with him if she wants but he's too old for her and she shouldn't be with him but if she really wants to be with him she should.

How incredibly inconsistent of you, strikes me that you're just repeating EVERYTHING that's been said, including the extremes of BOTH sides of the argument, in order to agree with everyone.
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what a fucking paedo. 15 and 22 is one hell of a gap at this time. you need to run. and quick.
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QUOTE (Finality @ Nov 12 2009, 11:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So she should be with him if she likes him but if he takes advantage of her she shouldn't be with him but you don't want her to get hurt but she should be with him if she wants but he's too old for her and she shouldn't be with him but if she really wants to be with him she should.

How incredibly inconsistent of you, strikes me that you're just repeating EVERYTHING that's been said, including the extremes of BOTH sides of the argument, in order to agree with everyone.



okay, you know what i havent' read all the posts...
i think she should stop calling him and just ignore him or say this doesn't work.
he IS probably going to take advantage of her in the future.
i really think she should break up.


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