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QUOTE (LikeIKnow @ Nov 13 2009, 07:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
okay, you know what i havent' read all the posts...
i think she should stop calling him and just ignore him or say this doesn't work.
he IS probably going to take advantage of her in the future.
i really think she should break up.

Now that's better, now you've thought it through and have an opinion on the matter. smile.gif
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We are in a relationship and i'm not going to dump him because of age difference. I made this topic to get advice on how to get my parents to understand, not to listen to you guys calling my boyfriend a pedo. My mom doesnt mind me being with him, and neither does my real dad, i just need to convince my stepdad now.
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15 and 22 is a BIG difference, not so surely in numbers but also in mentality. Either you're an amazingly rational, mature girl for your age or the guy who's 22 is a complete fucktard. I'm thinking the latter.
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^He's not.
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QUOTE (Nikita Nightmare @ Nov 16 2009, 06:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We are in a relationship and i'm not going to dump him because of age difference. I made this topic to get advice on how to get my parents to understand, not to listen to you guys calling my boyfriend a pedo. My mom doesnt mind me being with him, and neither does my real dad, i just need to convince my stepdad now.

Dear its not just that. There have been many other reasons that people have said why this is not exactly an ideal relationship.

Have you not heard of guys at that age (it can happen at any age really) taking advantage of girls your age (again it can happen with any age really)? They may play nice for the first couple of months or whatever then they end up forcing you to have sex with them. Maybe your stepdad sees that this relationship could end up hurting you in the end and thats why you haven't managed to convince him. Maybe re-read some of the things people have said because there has been very good advice in this topic.


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QUOTE (Nikita Nightmare @ Nov 15 2009, 12:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We are in a relationship and i'm not going to dump him because of age difference. I made this topic to get advice on how to get my parents to understand, not to listen to you guys calling my boyfriend a pedo. My mom doesnt mind me being with him, and neither does my real dad, i just need to convince my stepdad now.

Right. what did you expect us to say? give you a pat on the fucking back? "good job getting laid at 15 by a guy who might or might not be a sexual predator!"
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^No, no, no sarc... we were supposed to excitedly ask her what it's like to be so grown up.
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I have this sneaking suspicion her answer would be "he has hair on places the other guys I've dated doesn't"
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QUOTE (bring.me.back.to.life @ Nov 15 2009, 09:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Dear its not just that. There have been many other reasons that people have said why this is not exactly an ideal relationship.

Have you not heard of guys at that age (it can happen at any age really) taking advantage of girls your age (again it can happen with any age really)? They may play nice for the first couple of months or whatever then they end up forcing you to have sex with them. Maybe your stepdad sees that this relationship could end up hurting you in the end and thats why you haven't managed to convince him. Maybe re-read some of the things people have said because there has been very good advice in this topic.

As you say yourself, it can happen at any age, does that mean i shouldnt be in relationships at all?
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It means someone should give you a slap to knock some sense into that empty extension covered head of yours you stupid girl.


MAH BOYFREND AINT A PEDO UR ALL WRONG HE LUVS ME MAH PARENTS DONT LIKE IT.



No Nikita. Your boyfriend is a pedophile. When you find that out later, you'll feel like such an idiot for not listening.
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I will report you to a mod if you don't stop calling me stupid in every one of my topics.
All i'll say is that you guys dont know him, and you dont know me.
Oh and by the way, when pretending to be me, don't write like that. I have never written like that, and never will. It says more about you, then it does about me.
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I know it all might sound harsh but people are just worried about you.
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QUOTE (Nikita Nightmare @ Nov 16 2009, 02:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I will report you to a mod if you don't stop calling me stupid in every one of my topics.
All i'll say is that you guys dont know him, and you dont know me.
Oh and by the way, when pretending to be me, don't write like that. I have never written like that, and never will. It says more about you, then it does about me.



I've only been on here hardly 5 minutes.
For some reason I don't think they're going to do anything about the fact I called you stupid, because it's what you're being. Stupid.
You're an immature teenager and now you're trying to act mature while saying YOU DON'T KNOW ME, which is the worst way to retaliate to these things.

In the end Nikita, if you got hit by a car tomorrow, it doesn't affect me. If you fall and break your neck, it doesn't affect me. If you get raped by your pedophile boyfriend, it doesn't affect me. I don't care about you at all. It doesn't affect anyone on this forum in the slightest. No skin off our noses, but what has everyone been doing? Making sense. While you're ready to throw everything back in everyone who is actually talking something that is intelligent and general common sense.

Go make your own mistakes. Run infront of buses. Drink disinfectant. Keep going out with a pedophile. Have no common sense. Be an airhead.
In the end Nikita,
We don't care.

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I'll call you worse than stupid
You.Are.A.Fucking.Tit!!
You are so blinded by wanting to be all grown up you fail to see what you are getting yourself into
Your 15 you have years ahead of you. Why the rush to be all grown up?
Besides it's better to date a 22 yr old when you're 40
Toyboy FTW
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Oh Sepulchre I want to marry you and have 15 kids.
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