So a certain girl I'm talking to keeps saying she's not beautiful whenever I tell her she is. Is it just girls in general that have opposite opinions than us guys, or does she really think she's not beautiful? I'm so confused!!!!
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I Don't Understand.........
#1
Posted 01 April 2014 - 07:54 PM
#2
Posted 01 April 2014 - 11:09 PM
Welcome to the world of teenage girls bro.
#3
Posted 02 April 2014 - 01:20 PM
Sorry if that didn't help
#4
Posted 04 April 2014 - 11:28 AM
Because beautiful has been used so many times just to get into a girls pants, if that makes sense. Its hard to know when someone is actually genuinely saying someone else is beautiful. Most of the time, when I am called beautiful, I laugh and say that I'm not. Pretty maybe, but not beautiful. We need new, creative compliments, because girls, well, me anyway, become immune to being told the same thing over and over. (I love you being the only exception I think)
#5
Posted 07 April 2014 - 06:17 PM
I'm a loner I like to be alone I'm just like my dad but people still say that I'm not normal that the only reason I'm alone is cause I have no friends well so what I like being alone cause that's me I'm not a freak
Maybe? Or maybe I am and I just don't know maybe I do need friends randomness is awesome who wants to be my friend
#6
Posted 10 April 2014 - 10:13 AM
Use the word, "Gorgeous". It always works with my fiance.
#7
Posted 20 April 2014 - 05:00 PM
#8
Posted 21 April 2014 - 12:34 PM
#9
Posted 24 April 2014 - 06:01 PM
#10
Posted 01 May 2014 - 12:49 PM
Because beautiful has been used so many times just to get into a girls pants, if that makes sense. Its hard to know when someone is actually genuinely saying someone else is beautiful. Most of the time, when I am called beautiful, I laugh and say that I'm not. Pretty maybe, but not beautiful. We need new, creative compliments, because girls, well, me anyway, become immune to being told the same thing over and over. (I love you being the only exception I think)
I agree with this one, and may also throw in sometimes girls are told they're not or they assume they're not by other people or based on how they see other people. She may also be looking for compliments, but I doubt that's the case. There are always people like that of course.
But yeah, using another synonym for beautiful, something not as commonly said is usually better like whitejacket said.
#11
Posted 01 May 2014 - 01:00 PM
well... i used to date her and every chance i got i would tell her i love her and she is beautiful. but i dont know if she really loved me or if she just thought she wasnt beautiful.
#12
Posted 01 May 2014 - 04:16 PM
I wouldn't use the word sexy, or hot. Just cute, beautiful, gorgeous or pretty
#13
Posted 01 May 2014 - 06:03 PM
well... i used to date her and every chance i got i would tell her i love her and she is beautiful. but i dont know if she really loved me or if she just thought she wasnt beautiful.
Well there's your problem.
#14
Posted 01 May 2014 - 07:38 PM
What do you mean?
#15
Posted 01 May 2014 - 11:38 PM
Don't take this too personally or that I'm taking you in a negative way and I'm sure you may be exaggerating a bit, but constantly telling some someone you love or they're beautiful every chance you get, gets annoying.
I've done it before years ago and people have done it to me, that shit gets annoying.
Again, don't take it too negatively or feel that I'm attacking you.
You're young man, try multiple flavors of ice cream.
#16
Posted 02 May 2014 - 12:49 PM
oh. ok. but if it is annoying saying that, then howcome she didnt tell me it was annoying? it wouldnt hurt my feelings. so.... yeah.
#17
Posted 02 May 2014 - 12:52 PM
Some people say something and some don't.
#18
Posted 02 May 2014 - 08:37 PM
ohh
#19
Posted 25 May 2014 - 12:54 AM
Don't take this too personally or that I'm taking you in a negative way and I'm sure you may be exaggerating a bit, but constantly telling some someone you love or they're beautiful every chance you get, gets annoying.
I've done it before years ago and people have done it to me, that shit gets annoying.
You're young man, try multiple flavors of ice cream.
I agree with him (even tho iv never had a real relationship, I could just imagine this being true). I kinda think that something different should be tried. Maybe say "you're special to me" or something like that but saying "I love you and you're beautiful" may just seem annoying a few times later.
But hey I'm just making a theory and I also agree with madriley all the way down yonder. Cuz I'm pretty sure it would scare some girls and think that they want to get into their pants :s
Try something different every time and maybe hug her or something to say that u love her
#20
Posted 07 June 2014 - 05:14 PM
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