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So a certain girl I'm talking to keeps saying she's not beautiful whenever I tell her she is. Is it just girls in general that have opposite opinions than us guys, or does she really think she's not beautiful? I'm so confused!!!!


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Welcome to the world of teenage girls bro.


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Some girls r insecure and don't consider themselves pretty. Most girls I know say that to me, and they're beautiful. It's just how we r sometimes

Sorry if that didn't help
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Because beautiful has been used so many times just to get into a girls pants, if that makes sense. Its hard to know when someone is actually genuinely saying someone else is beautiful. Most of the time, when I am called beautiful, I laugh and say that I'm not. Pretty maybe, but not beautiful. We need new, creative compliments, because girls, well, me anyway, become immune to being told the same thing over and over. (I love you being the only exception I think)


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I'm a loner I like to be alone I'm just like my dad but people still say that I'm not normal that the only reason I'm alone is cause I have no friends well so what I like being alone cause that's me I'm not a freak 

Maybe? Or maybe I am and I just don't know maybe I do need friends randomness is awesome who wants to be my friend


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Use the word, "Gorgeous". It always works with my fiance.


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Ok. Thanks. I'll try that WhiteJacket.
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who are you talking about?
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That's classified information madame. I'm sorry. But I shan't tell anyone anymore. (Why am I talking like an FBI agent?) Lol
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Because beautiful has been used so many times just to get into a girls pants, if that makes sense. Its hard to know when someone is actually genuinely saying someone else is beautiful. Most of the time, when I am called beautiful, I laugh and say that I'm not. Pretty maybe, but not beautiful. We need new, creative compliments, because girls, well, me anyway, become immune to being told the same thing over and over. (I love you being the only exception I think)

I agree with this one, and may also throw in sometimes girls are told they're not or they assume they're not by other people or based on how they see other people. She may also be looking for compliments, but I doubt that's the case. There are always people like that of course.

But yeah, using another synonym for beautiful, something not as commonly said is usually better like whitejacket said. :)


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well... i used to date her and every chance i got i would tell her i love her and she is beautiful. but i dont know if she really loved me or if she just thought she wasnt beautiful. 


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I wouldn't use the word sexy, or hot. Just cute, beautiful, gorgeous or pretty


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well... i used to date her and every chance i got i would tell her i love her and she is beautiful. but i dont know if she really loved me or if she just thought she wasnt beautiful. 

 

Well there's your problem.


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What do you mean?


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Don't take this too personally or that I'm taking you in a negative way and I'm sure you may be exaggerating a bit, but constantly telling some someone you love or they're beautiful every chance you get, gets annoying.

I've done it before years ago and people have done it to me, that shit gets annoying. 

Again, don't take it too negatively or feel that I'm attacking you.

 

You're young man, try multiple flavors of ice cream.


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oh. ok. but if it is annoying saying that, then howcome she didnt tell me it was annoying?  it wouldnt hurt my feelings. so.... yeah.


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Some people say something and some don't.


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ohh


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Don't take this too personally or that I'm taking you in a negative way and I'm sure you may be exaggerating a bit, but constantly telling some someone you love or they're beautiful every chance you get, gets annoying.
I've done it before years ago and people have done it to me, that shit gets annoying. 
 
You're young man, try multiple flavors of ice cream.


I agree with him (even tho iv never had a real relationship, I could just imagine this being true). I kinda think that something different should be tried. Maybe say "you're special to me" or something like that but saying "I love you and you're beautiful" may just seem annoying a few times later.
But hey I'm just making a theory and I also agree with madriley all the way down yonder. Cuz I'm pretty sure it would scare some girls and think that they want to get into their pants :s

Try something different every time and maybe hug her or something to say that u love her
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I totally agree with both of you. But I can't exactly hug her because she lives in Texas and I live in Mississippi. But I will try to do something different.
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