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How Do You Deal With Breakups?


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=\ breaksups hurts... they get teh best off meh :[ i must admit im some what good wif handleing breakups buh not really [[never get 2 attached]] =] wink.gif tongue.gif
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depends.....small break-up: I cut.......big break-up: 3-4 suicide attempts
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Since I'm apparently unworthry to post my own topic on this forum. I'll just have to use this one.

I was rejected today. No surprise, I can live with it. But I honestly thought this was going to work out this time.

I'm the typical nice guy. I can't flirt for shit and my confidence is nearly none existant, and when those fleeting oppertunites to come along where I'm stupid enough to beleive I've find someone who finds me the least bit desireable, I put all my heart and emotion into it.

But girls seem to dispise me for this. It's the only way I can describe it. O hsure they're amused by it at first, then they grow tired of your doting, tender nature and fling you aside like a used condom left-over from the sex you're never going to have.

I just don't understand it. You women out there spend your lives bitching about how you can never meet a sensitive guy, yet even when you're surrounded by them you still prefer to go for the macho ass-holes who look at women the same way trucker look at there next cheese-burger at the drive-thru.

Youl'd rather take the time to make a romantic gentalmen out of a total jerk, but won't even give nice-guys like me the time of day.

So it will only be around this time that they start to look our way, not becuase they want us, but becuase we're the only ones who still desire them.

I am so angry right now. I'm so angry I don't know whether to scream, curse, cry or puke. I honestly have come to a point in my life where I beleive that I will never find companionship.

not sex, but companionship, some to love and to be love by. Someone to share myself with completely.

Stupid, I know, but what the fuck am I supposed to say? Those are the things I want in my life and yet every cosmic power that's got its all-powerful thumb in this disgusting shit-pile we call an existance, seems hell-bent on making sure that I end up dying alone.

I met a girl and I fell in love. I though what I felt for her meant something, becuase it was unlike any other feeling I had felt in my life.

I hate life for how much of a struggle it is for me, and I hate myself for not being what others want.

I've lost all hope this day, and quite honestl;y I don't know why I even continue to bother.

the answere?

Becuase I'm retarded enough to hold on to that tiny sliver of hope that I may find someone, but I'm not holding my breath.

When I do it'll probably involve a plastic bag and a rubber-band

'm an introvert alright?

I don't get out often, and it's a fucking climb-up Mt. Everest whenever I try to branch out and poke my head out of its shelf. It's hard for me to relate to anyone even those that would be considered my peers

I often find myself stradling the various social boarders and finding no acceptance in either one them.

As far as girls go...... what can I say. I try to be kind and tender, the loving sensetive type that they're always bitching about not having. But obviously that's not what they're looking for.

I find out about them, figure out what they like and try to work with that.
What the fuck else can I say? I don't have the self-esteem to talk to a girl with an 'I don't care what she thinks of me additude.'

Sometimes I think I'm too emotional and too sensitive for my own good, but hey if a girl wants me to piss on her face after spending an evening verbally abusing her, hey I can change my ways! I can be an insensetive duche-bag too.

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I dont think I'll ever get over him
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*sigh*, I mean, I know it is hard, but if you really cared about the person, it is harder than normal to get over it, I just hang with friends, or do something to get my mind off it.
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QUOTE (Dont Shoot The Scientist @ Sep 23 2008, 05:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i feel aweful for saying this but i drank a lot and listen to The Cure's - Pornography. After i'm done self loathing, i usually just get back up and realise that the relationship has shaped me and that it was a good learning experience.

this answer wins
you are wise, young padawan.

QUOTE (XxxCryin'BixxX @ Sep 29 2008, 05:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
depends.....small break-up: I cut.......big break-up: 3-4 suicide attempts

this post loses.
this the same person that killed themself last night?
they seem like a riot ^.^
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QUOTE (xander1208 @ Oct 13 2008, 11:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
this answer wins
you are wise, young padawan.

*cringe at ancient star wars quote*
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QUOTE (death.by.pretzel @ Oct 13 2008, 11:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
*cringe at ancient star wars quote*

it's only ancient if you haven't been playing the new star wars game on nintendo wii

yes i'm a geek, but i'm bored and have freshers flu.
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feeling whatever I'm feeling (rage, sadness, whatever), drinking, keeping oneself busy, and having one hell of a rebound fling.
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QUOTE (.drenched.in.blood. @ Aug 27 2008, 10:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Get a big tub of ice cream.
And a crappy movie.

By the end you'll be wishing you were over them!

If you're still not over them...
Repeat until the crappy movies get the better of you and turn your brain to mush.



i'm with you on this one... >.>
i'm totally pathetic when it comes to breakups...
sit around... watch movies like "the notebook"
and cry...
untill i fall asleep...
=/
sometimes stay home from school and do it all over again and again...


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QUOTE (Twenty-of-March @ Aug 26 2008, 12:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I do drink..
lots of drink..
everyday..
i thought it would help..
in fact, it doesn't..
drinking makes u harder to forget..
just try to face it..
face the reality..
what is done is done..

This is Life.


Well wat i do is i jus try to faget about that person
an write poerty or songs about it or that person.
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I never really thought about that.

Me i guess it depends who its with.
Most of my relationships i didnt take it to hard breaking up.

But there was one where it hit me really hard.
I wuz wit the guy for 3 yrs. But i got over it, i just think it wasnt meant to be.
There is nothing you can do about it. That person doesnt watn you.
&& it doesnt work out you either dont have anything in common or just cant get along.

you just go how it takes you.
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i get over them by telling myself that they just were not the 1
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I tell them "Don't worry, I'm sure a girl with your problems won't have any trouble finding a new guy." If they've already found someone else prior to the breakup, I laugh hysterically and say "Him? Seriously?"

95% of the time they come back.
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Attached File  love_quote_550.gif   5.31KB   1 downloadsumm... break-ups dont really hurt me unless ive put a lot of faith and trust in that person..
but when i do get hurt
i dont date untill ive found someone who makes me really happy..
but yeah smile.gif

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well i guess it rly depends on how long youve been together and how much you liked him/her
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QUOTE (dejectedartist @ Sep 29 2008, 05:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Since I'm apparently unworthry to post my own topic on this forum. I'll just have to use this one.

I was rejected today. No surprise, I can live with it. But I honestly thought this was going to work out this time.

I'm the typical nice guy. I can't flirt for shit and my confidence is nearly none existant, and when those fleeting oppertunites to come along where I'm stupid enough to beleive I've find someone who finds me the least bit desireable, I put all my heart and emotion into it.

But girls seem to dispise me for this. It's the only way I can describe it. O hsure they're amused by it at first, then they grow tired of your doting, tender nature and fling you aside like a used condom left-over from the sex you're never going to have.

I just don't understand it. You women out there spend your lives bitching about how you can never meet a sensitive guy, yet even when you're surrounded by them you still prefer to go for the macho ass-holes who look at women the same way trucker look at there next cheese-burger at the drive-thru.

Youl'd rather take the time to make a romantic gentalmen out of a total jerk, but won't even give nice-guys like me the time of day.

So it will only be around this time that they start to look our way, not becuase they want us, but becuase we're the only ones who still desire them.

I am so angry right now. I'm so angry I don't know whether to scream, curse, cry or puke. I honestly have come to a point in my life where I beleive that I will never find companionship.

not sex, but companionship, some to love and to be love by. Someone to share myself with completely.

Stupid, I know, but what the fuck am I supposed to say? Those are the things I want in my life and yet every cosmic power that's got its all-powerful thumb in this disgusting shit-pile we call an existance, seems hell-bent on making sure that I end up dying alone.

I met a girl and I fell in love. I though what I felt for her meant something, becuase it was unlike any other feeling I had felt in my life.

I hate life for how much of a struggle it is for me, and I hate myself for not being what others want.

I've lost all hope this day, and quite honestl;y I don't know why I even continue to bother.

the answere?

Becuase I'm retarded enough to hold on to that tiny sliver of hope that I may find someone, but I'm not holding my breath.

When I do it'll probably involve a plastic bag and a rubber-band

'm an introvert alright?

I don't get out often, and it's a fucking climb-up Mt. Everest whenever I try to branch out and poke my head out of its shelf. It's hard for me to relate to anyone even those that would be considered my peers

I often find myself stradling the various social boarders and finding no acceptance in either one them.

As far as girls go...... what can I say. I try to be kind and tender, the loving sensetive type that they're always bitching about not having. But obviously that's not what they're looking for.

I find out about them, figure out what they like and try to work with that.
What the fuck else can I say? I don't have the self-esteem to talk to a girl with an 'I don't care what she thinks of me additude.'

Sometimes I think I'm too emotional and too sensitive for my own good, but hey if a girl wants me to piss on her face after spending an evening verbally abusing her, hey I can change my ways! I can be an insensetive duche-bag too.



i feel for you man
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I just write poems about love and death
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