You can't be born a lesbian and hate it. She's married I'm sure she wanted to be one.
I know lots of people who hate themselves for being gay.
Look around, because some people do.
No, she accepted that she was one. And then was happy with it.
She was born a lesbian. She probably went through a rough time in her life coming to terms with it. Then she decided that she wouldn't hide her sexuality from the rest of the world. So she came out.
She is now happy with herself.
She never wanted it.