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Okay, I've been in an argument over this for weeks now, so I want to know what you think. Here's the question.


If a girl has had sex with another girl, but never with a guy, thus never having a penis in her, is she still a virgin?
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Okay, I've been in an argument over this for weeks now, so I want to know what you think. Here's the question.


If a girl has had sex with another girl, but never with a guy, thus never having a penis in her, is she still a virgin?

No. Because it still constitutes as sexual intercourse. 


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No. Because it still constitutes as sexual intercourse. 




THANK YOU!!!! That's what I said!! Now I'm going to go rub it in her face.
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I agree with Jess. Whilst it's true that it's globally accepted that a guy and girl having sex lose their virginity, I don't think that's the only case. If a couple engage in sexual activity of any kind and consider themselves to have had full sex, they're not a virgin any more. It just seems stupid to think a middle aged lesbian who's had at least 10 sexual partners (all female), for example, would still be considered a virgin despite extensive sexual experience. 

 

Personally I think it's backwards to declare someone a virgin just because they haven't had hetero sex, despite having a lot of homo sex. 


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See, that's basically what I told her. But she insisted that virginity was based on vaginal penetration by a penis. She said, and i quote "no poppin of da cherry" So then I asked her what is the case with toys? Because I know she has used them. With others, not just masturbation. Part of my belief is that a person can't lose their virginity their self, (I know someone who claims they fucked their self so they're not a virgin) it's a more then one person thing. But, anyway, thank you for ya'lls opinions. I'm going to go bug her...
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I've always personally found it very strange how for example, a male/female couple can have oral sex and still both be considered virgins (presuming it's their first time to engage in sexual behaviour, of course), only losing their 'virginity' upon penetrative sex. This means say, girls who receive oral and give head still call themselves virgins because they've never had a penis inside their vagina. However, using that 'definition', female couples would therefore permanently be virgins, even if they had a sex life spanning decades, because they've never had penetrative sex. and when do gay couples lose their virginity? After exchanging blow jobs, or after anal sex? 

 

The concept of virginity is hotly debated by many - some consider it to be more so a state of mind and a sort of mental innocence (hence why rape victims occasionally claim they're still virgins, and I don't blame them), some consider it to be based on the female hymen (this can be broken by tampons and certain sports), some consider it only to be lost after penetrative sex has occured...

 

SO basically it's a tough question to answer. Personally I'd consider virginity to have been lost when sex has occured - for hetero couples, this will mean vaginal sex, for gay men, penetrative and for lesbian couples, whatever form of coupling they wish to engage in. the whole concept of virginity essentially has always revolved around innocence, and I don't think you can call a lesbian couple engaging in sexual activities to be sexually innocent. 

 

 

I agree with Jess. Whilst it's true that it's globally accepted that a guy and girl having sex lose their virginity, I don't think that's the only case. If a couple engage in sexual activity of any kind and consider themselves to have had full sex, they're not a virgin any more. It just seems stupid to think a middle aged lesbian who's had at least 10 sexual partners (all female), for example, would still be considered a virgin despite extensive sexual experience. 

 

Personally I think it's backwards to declare someone a virgin just because they haven't had hetero sex, despite having a lot of homo sex. 

I agree with both of these. But I believe any kind of sexual intercourse (be it oral, anal, vaginal, or any of the miscellaneous others) take away from your virginity. But I also believe it has to be willing, so those who have been molested or raped can still be virgins since they didn't willingly perform the sexual acts.


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See, that's basically what I told her. But she insisted that virginity was based on vaginal penetration by a penis. She said, and i quote "no poppin of da cherry" So then I asked her what is the case with toys? Because I know she has used them. With others, not just masturbation. Part of my belief is that a person can't lose their virginity their self, (I know someone who claims they fucked their self so they're not a virgin) it's a more then one person thing. But, anyway, thank you for ya'lls opinions. I'm going to go bug her...

Seems she has a very archaic belief on what virginity is then. 


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I was going 2 use the gender and sexuality forum, but it is locked. I just created my account 2day. I recently discovered that I am bi and was wondering where 2 go 2 find a guy/girl that is like me. I would have been this way in high school, but my parents were overprotective dicks. I am 24 and just moved N2 my own apartment. I am a full time student, so time is kinda short. But I would like 2 find a guy/girl that is preferably emo. (Yes, I know some people don't like the term, but from what I hav seen, the emo/scene crowd usually is very HOT! If anyone has some answers 4 me, it would b  appreciated. I am worried that I will b forever alone and may not find my type of guy/girl. So answers plz.


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since last night I have been feeling to fk someone.How to kill this fukin urge.I don like masturbation.And I lost my girl 2 months ago.So its quite hard time for me.But I m controlling.Idk how long will it last...A yoga mabe.or throwing cold water on my peepee.


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Ok so this is super awkward but...um...I am pretty sure I am straight so is it normal to be turned on by 2 gay guys fooling around in a vid? Cuz I think it's wierd and so does my friend who has the same prob.


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Kay I have something to ask Im a transgender and ive gone through SRS three years back, I just wanted to ask how is it like reaching orgasm for a girl? Ive played around with myself ocassionally but i wont allow myself to reach an orgasm, kinda scared about how it would feel. I know, i know a lot people have told me to just effin cum already but im kinda queasy about it. so uhm any experinces? Or if I should let myself reach an orgasm?


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Hey and thanks for your time and yes I have joined this really supportive forum a month back and also guess whaaat? A week ago I had my first orgasm I think I saw the gates of heaven and died for a while, It was the best feeling I have ever had in my life!


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Is it generally difficult for woman to orgasm?
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and many have never experienced an orgasm in my life. 

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Some women find it incredibly difficult, and many have never experienced an orgasm in their life. This makes me immensely sad, women should be able to revel in sexual pleasure as frequently as they wish. However, a lot of it comes down to relaxation, and trial and error. It's extremely unlikely that you will climax if you're not relaxed, particularly mentally but also physically. Women are not the same as men, in that if they jerk it for a certain amount of time they're probably going to finish. Women could be masturbating for hours and nothing may ever happen. A LOT of it is in the brain. 
 
If you're looking for tips, you may find it easier to explore your own body rather than trying to reach that point with someone else, initially. Relax, massage yourself to find and explore sensitive areas, you may wish to use a sex toy depending on your age and preferences. Just do what feels good, and above all else, try to relax and focus on what you're doing and the pleasure inherent in that, rather than stressing yourself out over trying to actually reach the climax - if you do, it probably won't happen. ^_^
 
This may sound like a bit of an essay, but I think women generally find once they climax once and know what to do or what will work for them, they'll find it much easier to frequently orgasm in the future. 


Thank you. (: I thought maybe I was crazy for thinking that a lot of it was a mental thing. Use to I would never orgasm, but now that Ive been with the same guy Im a lot more comfortable and relaxed and you're right, it's a lot easier. Both he and I know more about my body and where Im most sensitive, and Im going to take your advice and do some of my own exploring. (:
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Ok ummmm I don't know how to start this question. Well... I started to learn about "sex stuff" when I was 11. And now that I'm older, I realize that it wastes my time masturbating. I know a couple of people who can't have children, and I was wondering if when I get older, will I be able to have kids if I masturbated alot as a teenager?


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Ok ummmm I don't know how to start this question. Well... I started to learn about "sex stuff" when I was 11. And now that I'm older, I realize that it wastes my time masturbating. I know a couple of people who can't have children, and I was wondering if when I get older, will I be able to have kids if I masturbated alot as a teenager?

 

Yes.


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I had a question for like a week but is there people here? Its embarassing and I dont want to tell my mom and my dad is working in Japan so I can't just talk to him on the phone. I worry a lot for this whole week but I dont know who to talk to because I think there is something wrong with me but I dont know how to go to the doctor without my mom. My cousin showed me emo corner but I couldnt tell her either and she keeps asking me.


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Why do most humans say that if you cut you are emo...? That's not all to being emo...? Is it...?
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