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So.. I was dating this guy for about seven months and today he broke up with me. Reason: He just wanted to be single.. i feel horrible... i always fuck everything up.. its my fault. its all my fault. Everything always is. I should just die. I thought him and I would be together longer.... shoot me.
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no such thing as"because i wanted to be single"....theres another girl.
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i know that.. and hes a fuckin dick for not telling me the truth... but i know somehow its my fault...
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HE doesnt deserve you
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must. not. fap... to OP's sorrow....
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Hello, I'm Mr.Dick.
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so am I. fact is, I have only a token amount of sympathy for the OP. Yeah it sucks to get dumped, but this whole "woe is me" act is not very attractive, and not very helpful for herself.


I'm going to ignore the OP's thread title because I'm sure she's just saying that out of frustration.

OP: I know getting over these things is easier said then done, but you can't let yourself wallow in this kind of thing. Regardless of WHY you broke up, the reality is that you guys are done, and there is not much you can do about it to change that. (unless whatever it is that cause you guys to break up in the first place changes)

My advice? get out of the house, and go find stuff to do. Go hang out with friends, go find a new hobby, go compulsive watch movies, go pick up painting, whatever it is, go DO something. Find a reason for you to get out of the house and moving. The faster you do that, the faster you can get on with your life.

That or you can just wallow in self-pity, and just piss us all off.

Harsh words? maybe. but you know I'm right.
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you are right. but you can't tell me that thats what everyone does right after a breakup. Usually everyone just wallows in self pity for a while. It pisses people off? Well too bad for them. One doesn't tell others about breakups to necessarily acquire their pity, but to simply tell someone about it. After all.. it is a pretty emotional period, but you're right about some things nonetheless..
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Yeah, it's expected that you're gonna be wallowing for a little bit. That's fine. But there is a matter of degree and length. If you do it for too long, you'll just seem whiny and refuse to move on. and if you go too deep too quickly, people will wonder if you got some other issues that are probably more pressing.

now, this is all just about perception, and that's not really that important in the grand scheme of things. Now to me, I've been down that road enough times to know that the best you can do is just to get over it. Most people I know at my age, that's generally what they do. One of my friends gives herself maybe 3 days to get over someone and then she's back out in the world kicking butt again. that's the kind of resilience that makes you feel better about who you are.

so, not saying you CAN'T wallow. but don't stay in that funk for too long, or else you'll stop taking care of yourself and by then you'll REALLY have a hard time getting out.
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QUOTE (♥Vanity Kitten.™ @ Jul 30 2009, 07:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
you are right. but you can't tell me that thats what everyone does right after a breakup. Usually everyone just wallows in self pity for a while. It pisses people off? Well too bad for them. One doesn't tell others about breakups to necessarily acquire their pity, but to simply tell someone about it. After all.. it is a pretty emotional period, but you're right about some things nonetheless..

Wait, so you're wallowing because everyone else wallows? That makes sense.
It doesn't matter if the breakup was your fault or not, the truth is, it's over, and dwelling on 'what ifs'; what could have been; what you could have done differently... won't achieve anything now. It may take a while, but you'll have to accept that it's over, put it down to experience, and move on.
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ERROR.
No results found.

Did you mean "All Guys Have Dicks..."?
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He broke up with you, it's over, done.
All you can do now is think of the positives, he was a dick and you're free of him now
7 months is a long time, but you will get over him, just keep yourself busy, go out with your friends, a bit of retail therapy.
Don't wallow for longer than is necessary, people will just think you're whiny.
Do not blame yourself for him dumping you, it was his fault
And what empryean and Sarcastic guy said, they gave good advice smile.gif
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ITT: OP isn't looking for help and advice, but rather for people to say "It wasn't your fault, your boyfriend is a meany."

Grow the fuck up.
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QUOTE (Intoxicated @ Jul 30 2009, 04:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ERROR.
No results found.

Did you mean "All Guys Have Dicks..."?

no I meant exactly what I typed in the first place.
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^ I choose to take offense to that.
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QUOTE (♥Vanity Kitten. @ Jul 29 2009, 07:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So.. I was dating this guy for about seven months and today he broke up with me. Reason: He just wanted to be single.. i feel horrible... i always fuck everything up.. its my fault. its all my fault. Everything always is. I should just die. I thought him and I would be together longer.... shoot me.

just remember one thing- its NOT your fault- its his fault because he must have found a new girl-
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QUOTE (Rendallama @ Jul 30 2009, 04:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ITT: OP isn't looking for help and advice, but rather for people to say "It wasn't your fault, your boyfriend is a meany."

Grow the fuck up.


wrong. Broken Hearts? Hello? Why else would I fuckin post this? I don't want anyones pity. I just wanted to feel understood and fyi I do want advice.
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QUOTE (♥Vanity Kitten.™ @ Jul 30 2009, 03:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
no I meant exactly what I typed in the first place.

Get out.


QUOTE (empyrean @ Jul 30 2009, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ I choose to take offense to that.

So do I. She is unbelievably boring and bitchy.
Then she wonders why her boyfriend broke up with her.

QUOTE (♥Vanity Kitten.™ @ Jul 30 2009, 09:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wrong. Broken Hearts? Hello? Why else would I fuckin post this? I don't want anyones pity. I just wanted to feel understood and fyi I do want advice.

Sure. That's exactly what you're doing...
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this is what i dont get, no offense. but like people always say you know get over them blah blah pick up some hobbies etc..
but like if she could do that so fast she probably wouldnt be posting this.
i understand how you feel smile.gif guy broke up with me after 6 months and its 3 month and i still not over him but dw it gets easier smile.gif
but ye, do go out with your friends. cas after breaking up with people you notice someothimes you depended on them too much and you missed out in a lot of fun things in the time you were dating, like seeing your friends a lot and stuff
hope you ok smile.gif
dont worry, hell soon realised what an idiot he was dear smile.gif
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Not all relationships last forever i'm sorry to say, which you should of known anyway. Just try to move on and stop blaming yourself for the break up. Some guys rather be single sometimes so it may not be your fault that he broke up with you.
And I don't see how this situation is any relation to the name of this topic. Not all guys are dicks.
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