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QUOTE (RazorRose @ Nov 1 2009, 01:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Love is infinite, it may even be genderless.

He is old, you're young.

Love is blind, but the law is not.

If you really are that desperate to push the age limits go 17, 18 and you are pushing it a bit much. Any higher than that and the guy should be ashamed... or really proud, depends how he rolls.

I could be wrong, you could be crazy about each other and it is destiny in an adverse form. If he really loves you just for you, ask him to chop his dick off... time how long it takes him to run away clutching his joystick.


Lmao.
I agree.
I believe that love has no age and all that but you're only 14. If you were 19 and he was like 29 that- actually no. That still feels kinda wrong. He most probably is going to persuade to fuck him a couple of times, you're gonna say yes and then bam. Off he runs to perv on another kid. You should stick to the safe side and stop seeing him.
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QUOTE (Finality @ Nov 1 2009, 04:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
This thread's made me think, what would you guys say to 16 and 20?


18-40

;p
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3 - 16?


And I can't believe my post was overlooked.

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QUOTE (Marijuana? @ Nov 2 2009, 06:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
18-40

;p

That's over 5 times the gap. laugh.gif
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Nikita if you have bothered to read everyones comments that are saying that the relationship should end etc and given reasons to why you should, then obviously there is no way you are going to convince your parents to like the guy or whatever considering your parents will most likely be thinking of the same things as whats been said. Hopefully you make the right choice before its to late.
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QUOTE (~xoX.Jessica.Cullen.Xox~ @ Nov 2 2009, 05:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The thing is, although technically your boyfriend could be accused of statutory rape, the fact of the matter is that he probably would not be prosecuted.

Not true. A 19 year guy was arrested for statutory rape last week because his girlfriends parents made a complaint. He's 19, she was a week of 17.
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QUOTE (kidhybrid @ Nov 1 2009, 01:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
They seem a bit on the strict side so im guessing they will NOT listen to you.

I have a problem with this. Her parents aren't being unreasonable. 8 years is more than half her age added on. There's a difference between being strict and giving a damn.
My parents just about went ballistic when they thought I liked a guy who was three years older than me, and I am both older than Nikita and of the legal age of consent. That is a bit on the strict side. This isn't a sensible age difference.

My theory: If you can't fuck in Canada, the age gap is too big. (16 is the age of consent, 12 and 13 has a +2 years rule, and 14 and 15 has a +5 years rule.) Sure, this isn't legal in a lot of countries, but if you're going to break the law, you should use sense while doing so (although, you shouldn't break the law, that's bad).


Funny story: The age of consent here changed fairly recently, from 14 to 16. I was the age of consent for a year, then I was underage for a year, than I was of age again when I had my birthday. laugh.gif (That doesn't really have a point, I'm just tired and therefore easily amused.)
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QUOTE (~xoX.Jessica.Cullen.Xox~ @ Nov 2 2009, 09:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Compared to the number of people who have underage sex the prosecuted rates are not that high for those who are dating and of a similar age. I'm just saying. of course prosecutions DO happen, but compared to the numbers of people who could be prosecuted, they're a lot less. 

Yea, not very high. But imagine the job opportunities available for a 19-year old with a statutory rape conviction in recession!
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QUOTE (Pourquoi Pas @ Nov 3 2009, 11:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yea, not very high. But imagine the job opportunities available for a 19-year old with a statutory rape conviction in recession!

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I'm going to have to be careful.
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QUOTE (Finality @ Nov 4 2009, 12:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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I'm going to have to be careful.

Well if your parents like him then there's no real chance of him being charged with anything.
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QUOTE (Pourquoi Pas @ Nov 4 2009, 12:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well if your parents like him then there's no real chance of him being charged with anything.

I don't think my mom would be the type to prosecute anyway, so I guess it's all good.
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I'M PHONING THE PO-LICE!
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QUOTE (Spartan @ Nov 4 2009, 06:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'M PHONING THE PO-LICE!


Didn't relise how law abiding you were!

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QUOTE (Spartan @ Nov 4 2009, 06:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'M PHONING THE PO-LICE!

For what reason? laugh.gif
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He's upholding a moral code! A model citizen is Kane!
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22 year old 14 year old, he's going for some vag so be careful, trust me i know guys who can play the real nice guy for months to get pussy... Welcome to my life that's the friends I have lol im personally not like that.. I swear<3 but i do know people who literally can go months with being real nice just to get vag... truth......

so if you stay with it, be careful..
but i'd suggest ending it and finding someone your own age, ya everyones immature as fuck at your age but you gotta deal with it till you're 18 then you can date old guys!
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go for someone closer to your age. i happen to be single wink.gif
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Ignore everyone that says hes a pedo he can be classed as that but in this case hes not. You're inlove with him and he feels the same about you and if your parents dont understand that well they obviously dont want you to be happy so if they want you to be happy they must give him a chance if you're the happy one thats all that matters once you're a bit older the age gap wont even matter its just because your still in school or under 16. But also be careful because he may just be playing with you so test his love for you first and if he gives what you're looking for then go for it
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QUOTE (xlilemokatiex @ Nov 9 2009, 06:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ignore everyone that says hes a pedo he can be classed as that but in this case hes not. You're inlove with him and he feels the same about you and if your parents dont understand that well they obviously dont want you to be happy so if they want you to be happy they must give him a chance if you're the happy one thats all that matters once you're a bit older the age gap wont even matter its just because your still in school or under 16. But also be careful because he may just be playing with you so test his love for you first and if he gives what you're looking for then go for it


It isn't true love considering relationships at her age don't usually last that long anyway.
Her parents are doing what most parents would do, protecting their child. Obviously you are pretty idiotic to think that they don't want her to be happy. And obviously you haven't heard stories about older (guys around his age) guys taking advantage of girls (around nikitas age) though it can happen to anyone. They act sweet for the first few weeks or whatever then they pounce.
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Nikita is either the most clueless teenager ever or a MASTER TROLL
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