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Pegging is when a dominant female puts on a strap on "gives it to" the submissive male in the ass.

Would you ever participate in pegging?
What are your opinions on it?
A lot of people say that pegging is something usually done between a bisexual couple(or I guess a straight couple featuring one/two bisexuals). Do you think its true?

I personally would never peg a guy, but I don't see a problem with it.
For guys, liking it in the ass, doesn't make them gay imo.
A lot of people see it that way (butt sex(for males)=GAY sex), but I strongly disagree. I just see it as another way for a man to have an orgasm.
Therefore, I think that if the couple is close enough and they communicate very well about what they like sexually, and they wanna try pegging, that they should totally go for it.
As for the bisexual thing...well, guess I can see why people would think that a straight couple featuring a bisexual man would enjoy pegging, but I think that straight couples with straight people could enjoy pegging also.


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I don't think I would.

Is it true that guys have a G-spot in their ass?
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Okay, pegging is something that I am actually very interested in. I want to try it for a lot of reasons and the idea of it is something I find very appealing.

Pegging definitely isn't gay or bisexual. The point of having a woman wearing a strap on is that it is, in fact, a woman. Pegging may not necessarily be considered "vanilla" but it's actually not that uncommon or outrageous, and is very acceptable among straight couples and bisexual couples alike. It's something that, if done right, it can be pleasurable for both parties. It offers prostate stimulation in men and if you use the right kind of toys, it can stimulate the clit as well; and that's without taking anything psychological into consideration.

Obviously, this isn't something that everyone is going to be comfortable doing, considering their own views, their partner's, and the relationship between the two of them, but I think it's something that a lot of people don't properly consider.

Lastly, there is one bit I would like to specifically address, that being...
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Pegging is when a dominant female puts on a strap on "gives it to" the submissive male in the ass.

I have a problem with this, in the sense that you imply that the female must be dominant. I find that pegging and BDSM are often closely related, and even though they are both something that interest me, I prefer to keep the two separate. While, yes, it certainly is an option for the woman to be dominant throughout the act of pegging, it is certainly not a requirement. I know of a lot of people that consider pegging so simply be traditional anal sex with role reversal, or a new way to bond emotionally. Just because she is on the giving end instead, does not mean she needs to be dominant for this to work.
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id try peggin i'm bi and ts always been something i want to try
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QUOTE (Sexy Shenanigans @ Mar 6 2010, 04:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I have a problem with this, in the sense that you imply that the female must be dominant. I find that pegging and BDSM are often closely related, and even though they are both something that interest me, I prefer to keep the two separate. While, yes, it certainly is an option for the woman to be dominant throughout the act of pegging, it is certainly not a requirement. I know of a lot of people that consider pegging so simply be traditional anal sex with role reversal, or a new way to bond emotionally. Just because she is on the giving end instead, does not mean she needs to be dominant for this to work.

You have a good point, I never saw it that way...
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Pegging:


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QUOTE (♠Onyx♠ @ Mar 6 2010, 11:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You have a good point, I never saw it that way...

From what I can tell, it doesn't seem to occur to most people. It drives me out of my mind that this is the general assumption. I've spoken to quite a few people that enjoy pegging and a great deal of them have absolutely no interest in BDSM and like being pegged (yeah, I went there) as dominatrix-types about as much as they like to be called gay. Don't get me wrong, there are some people that definitely enjoy the dominant aspect of it very much, but they seem to be slightly in the minority.

Though stereotyping is inevitable, this is one that gets on my nerves because dominance and submission has nothing to do with the act of pegging and is more dependent on the individuals. I think that porn definitely doesn't help this situation seeing as every porn video I've seen that involves pegging is poorly done BDSM porn.

Even as someone that is very much a dominant type of person, I don't think I would want to combine pegging with BDSM for personal reasons, further proving my point that even though pegging puts the woman in a dominant position, she doesn't necessarily need to be a dominant person.
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QUOTE (♠Onyx♠ @ Mar 6 2010, 04:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You have a good point, I never saw it that way...

She never saw it that way when she stimulated my prostrate.



BOOM! RIGHT IN HER EYE!
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No to pegging. Definite no.

But yes to prostate massage. Guys who automatically say no to it because they immediately think it's the same thing as being fucked in the ass don't know what they're talking about -- and they don't know what they're missing. I'm not saying I can't get off without it and I know quite a few women can be very uncomfortable about it, but... god damn.

Say it loud and say it proud: Ask your lass for a finger up your ass!
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QUOTE (Jessticles @ Mar 6 2010, 07:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Men have a "prostate gland", which when stimulated, gives a much more powerful orgasm. It's likened to a female G spot, but unlike the G spot, it's definitely there, it's a part of your body. Only problem? It's located inside the rectum. prepare to get your hands dirty! 


On topic, no, I don't think I would ever fuck a guy in the ass with a strap on. Mainly because despite how submissive he may be, that's going a little too far. I will gladly, and have done, stimulated the prostate gland which gives a powerful orgasm as well as an extreme feeling of dominance for me, strap on is definitely one step too far. 


I agree with this, even though im bi, but a woman to do it to a man id have to think that the man is with the wrong partner smile.gif.

Fingers are enough to stimulate it smile.gif

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