QUOTE (Jessticles @ Sep 18 2010, 07:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How is it degrading to give your partner pleasure?
I mean oral is no different to normal (vaginal) sex. If you find head degrading, I don't really understand how you're okay with full sex. It's not as if every girl giving head is pushed into it :S Most girls do it because they actually ENJOY the process, and ENJOY giving their partner pleasure, and eh, go down fully willingly without being asked.
I don't really understand your thought process, I suppose. I'd understand if you meant forcing someone to give you head - that's just a nasty thing to do, and yes, many girls naturally would hate that... but the entire act as a whole? No, definitely can't see where you're coming from, sorry.
EDIT: And for the people (not necessarily Fizz, but I know some people DO think this) who think "EW! It's so gross! Why would you want a penis in your mouth?!", it's not really that much different to putting something inside you. I don't think you should put anything in your vagina you wouldn't put in your mouth.
I mean oral is no different to normal (vaginal) sex. If you find head degrading, I don't really understand how you're okay with full sex. It's not as if every girl giving head is pushed into it :S Most girls do it because they actually ENJOY the process, and ENJOY giving their partner pleasure, and eh, go down fully willingly without being asked.
I don't really understand your thought process, I suppose. I'd understand if you meant forcing someone to give you head - that's just a nasty thing to do, and yes, many girls naturally would hate that... but the entire act as a whole? No, definitely can't see where you're coming from, sorry.
EDIT: And for the people (not necessarily Fizz, but I know some people DO think this) who think "EW! It's so gross! Why would you want a penis in your mouth?!", it's not really that much different to putting something inside you. I don't think you should put anything in your vagina you wouldn't put in your mouth.
Nothing is truly degrading, it's only degrading in a certain point of view.
If two people are in love and they each one agrees to it, you can't argue with that. But someone else may still find it degrading, and so to them it is a degrading act.
When a girl gives head, and the guy is grabbing her head and pushing up and down, I personally look at that and find it degrading.
It is shown in porn a lot and I find it disrespectful. I would never let my boyfriend do that.
Other people may have no problem with it, and I'm sure the girl doing it doesn't either, but for me, it's hard to watch, let alone do. I'm not into feeling like a bitch.