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[THE MAN]

Okay EC what I am querying is your longest ever relationship, what you felt for the person and lastly why you broke up?

It'd be intriguing to see some responses.

Longest relationship was 1.5 years. I loved him a lot but couldn't be the critter he idolised. I also couldn't cope with his future talk and felt suffocated. He was an emotional and manipulative individual and I couldn't handle the games anymore. I also am tempermental so it was rollercoaster fun most of the tim. It really hurt breaking up though. It surprised me.

Oh well

[.::Skrillex::.]

My longest relationship was 19 months.
We broke up 3 months after she moved out of the state, keeping a long distance relationship was too difficult. It was hard trying to keep in touch and hard to actually be affectionate towards each other when your only getting phone calls and emails and thats why we broke up. I still and always will love her though <3

[lolzombies]

Longest relationship was almost 3 years.
We broke up because he was abusive in every way, manipulative, and I just couldn't handle his shit anymore.

I don't really like to count that relationship though, because it was just horrible, full of drama, and it's just embarrassing.
We broke up one day, got back then next, fought, fought and fought some more. He cheated, lied, etc.
But then again I was only 13 and stupid when I met him.

My second longest relationship would be the one I am in now. We've been together for 2 years, and it isn't really going smoothly anymore.
He's cheated a few times, and we fight alot, but it's actually really different this time.
For the first 6 months, it was amazing, then it just turned sour.
I guess I just have bad luck, haha

[Fizz]

Okay EC what I am querying is your longest ever relationship, what you felt for the person and lastly why you broke up?

It'd be intriguing to see some responses.

Longest relationship was 1.5 years. I loved him a lot but couldn't be the critter he idolised. I also couldn't cope with his future talk and felt suffocated. He was an emotional and manipulative individual and I couldn't handle the games anymore. I also am tempermental so it was rollercoaster fun most of the tim. It really hurt breaking up though. It surprised me.

Oh well

the last girl i was seeing said that

but it was okay when she was sleeping around, at the same time telling me she wanted children with me.

as for me and relationships, never been in one.

[THE MAN]

I think its a common feeling tbh. Our image of ourselves and anothers image of us different. When we can't live up to that there is guilt. Its too much.

[Kasey Is Awesome]

Year and a half and the other was 6 months.


Yay me.

[Infinity]

A year and a half. We broke up because he was some what abusive, neglectful, emotionally retarded and I was just tired of begging for things that should come with being in a relationship, like affection and understanding.

My second longest relationship is the one I am in now. Almost a year. We've had very few disagreements in the past, a few misunderstandings, even fewer true problems. So far so good.

[Staton]

We've had very few disagreements in the past, a few misunderstandings, even fewer true problems. So far so good.

Uhhhhhh.....lol. Just lol.

[Reflection]

Longest for me was about five years. At first, I was infatuated, and we'd stay up all night talking. We forged a strong bond, and became great friends. Eventually she decided that I was the person she wanted to lose her virginity to, and we acted on it. I fell deeply in love, and when she tried to leave I did everything to pull her back. She did come back to me, but shortly after that we both got involved in drugs.

One thing about drugs is that you can't have a relationship with another person. Drugs will always be the more important of the two, as they are more reliable than people could ever be. The problem is that it was a false-reward.

Our relationship became more and more co-dependent, and I realized that I was beginning to hate the people we had become. I became withdrawn, less affectionate, more irritable. The relationship ended when I was arrested 2 years ago, and while she is trying to get me back with her, it seems that we've both outgrown each other.

[Lightning.]

3 years
was grand for the first 2 but turned nasty in the last one

Basically he ruined my exams, therefore ruining my life

Also he cheated on his new gf with me on numerous occasions
I only did it cos I knew I still had a hold on him, it was me getting my own back
If he says anything to me now I have that to throw in his face


I know I'm a bitch
Merr

[.Werewolf.]

2 years, I don't want to go into. That is all.

[Blessthefallen]

A year and a month. We were amazing for the first 6-7 months. We didn't know each other before dating so the first few months were really good because we were learning about each other. I fell completely in love with her and decided she was the one to lose my virginity with. Then she went on a clubbing holiday about 8-9 months in and even though i trusted her there was always doubt in my mind and the relationship basically fell apart after she got back. I will always love her though whether we end up friends or don't speak again

[Forzare!]

My current one, 16 months on tuesday. We argue, have petty fights and ups and downs but we're happy with each other really. What happens in the future happens.

[LionJess]

That depends on what exactly counts, I suppose. I've never had what I would consider to be a really serious relationship, in that for me a certain amount of time has to have elapsed, and your behaviour towards each other has to be of a certain type before I'll say yes, this is a serious relationship, this isn't just a casual dating thing or exclusive, well, essentially fuck buddies. 

I was on and off with someone for over a year and a half, but it was such a messy volatile situation that it would literally be something like together one week, off for a month, together for three weeks, off for 2 months, etc. It ended really because of our friendship. I liked him a lot more than he liked me, though he still claims he has strong romantic feelings for me, but because of his behaviour, it's really best for us to be friends... he's too much of a slut right now to give me what I want and need, I'm probably not the kind of girl for him, we don't want to risk putting our friendship at jeopardy, because I love him to pieces and I would never ever want anything to destroy what we have. We still ponder about what it'd be like occasionally, but the risk of what could happen is too huge to risk.

In terms of straight being with someone non-stop, without breaking up, or ending it... probably about 3-4 straight months, we saw each other pretty much every day. It ended, eh, weird to talk about. I would have ended it because he didn't want a serious relationship, I did. But the way it actually ended was because we had a huge fight, didn't talk for about a week (but we were still 'together'... I still don't know exactly when it ended), and his best friend threatened me. Quite glad it's over now. 

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I don't really like commitment that much unless you really really want it. The two people I've mentioned are the two guys who I've really liked the most, and they're the two who I would have happily committed to for quite some time. Other guys... if you don't want it, what's the point in being in a relationship? Be fuck buddies, friends with benefits, or be in an open (or non-serious) relationship. I really don't see the point in being with someone purely for the sake of having a boyfriend.

[Hyena.]

Lol I feel so inadequate. At least I know I'm shit at keeping people.

Six or seven months. Definitely over half a year.
I loved her, and then she split with me in an argument that started small and spun out of control. I was too bitter to get back together with her.
I was a fool.

Live and learn.

[Chrizz Pach]

3 months,i loved her but she was a two timing beeeech xD

[Bewbies]

In about 3 months, it will have been 3 years.


Second to that was a year. And...it was kind of nothing really. I didn't want to be with him for that long. haha -.-

[oops gone]

Longest before my current relationship was about seven months, with this guy Nick, and I broke up with him because he was stupid. Just that.
Flat out stupid. I couldn't stand it anymore. He was failing most of his classes and I was tired of explaining everything to him.

My current relationship has gone on for a year and seven months, and we're still going strong.

[The Wretched Egg]

3 years
was grand for the first 2 but turned nasty in the last one

Basically this.

Except, my girlfriend was very controlling, mean to my friends and she wanted to be priority number one in my life. I got fed up with having a nagging bitch every morning complaining about not seeing me enough and that she felt deprived, when I saw her every other day. I guess, I just got tired pretty much and ended it.

[.shadow.]

Then she went on a clubbing holiday about 8-9 months in and even though i trusted her there was always doubt in my mind and the relationship basically fell apart after she got back.

A year, and this is almost exactly the same way it ended with us too.