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#81
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I spent a couple of years thinking how much better my life would be if I was a guy, and there was a time when i tried my hardest to look like one. That was until I realised I'm never going to be one no matter how hard I try, so now I've finally gotten to understand that being a girl isn't as bad as I thought it was.

Actually, you could be a man if you wanted. You would just never be a male genetically. You'd always have the XX genes but you could still live under a full male identity. I'm glad you're happier now as a female though!
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I really don't think it would have made a significant difference.

I grew up with my mom who is very easy-going and has never pushed any gender roles on me and wouldn't regardless of my gender.

I already have a lot of male traits as it is. I've been forced to be strong; a provider. I have difficulty with emotion. And I dress like little boy. ...relatively.

You are lucky your mother doesn't push any gender roles on you. Mine does, even after I explained my situation to her, she still acts as if I am going to grow up, marry a man and give birth to my own kids. To that I say: hell no!
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#83
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Im pretty happy being a girl. I love getting dressed up and make up, and doing my hair. I'm really into those kind of things.
periods are a fucking pain, but beauty comes out of it (being able to have children, etc.)
id like to be married some day and have children. I love kids. One thing I do hate is how men tend to underestimate women.
Ive had some guys tell me "You play too much sports, your too buff, that isn't attractive." Or when I said I want to be a famous athlete they said "how about we focus on becoming a wealthy family" meaning, "STAY IN THE HOUSE AND HAVE KIDS. THATS YOUR ROLE."
I use to lift weights with my cousin who was a guy, I enjoyed working out and sports more than anything in the world. I wanted to go pro someday.
but guys were intimidated by me, I wasn't exaggeratedly buff or a muscle woman, I was just Fit with tight legs,abs & arms.
And watching me dominate in sports wasn't attractive to most guys either, they'd rather see me on the floor scrubbing tiles, or making them a sandwich.(Ive been told that before, how awful.)
So, I would really appreciate it if some men weren't as sexist, I guess. I can clean a house and cook a delicious dinner, AND dominate in pro sports or weight lifting if I wanted to..
Doesn't make me any less feminine or more masculine..

But if I was a guy, id be more glorified for what I want to do in life. Id be praised if I wanted to be a weight lifter and id be looked upon as attractive if I got really buff. My mom and dad would also support it more. But of course now, I want to be a rockstar, or lawyer lol.
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I've been debating with myself about my gender for years now. I'm a girl (yes, I am a girl), but I don't really feel like one most of the time. I like feeling pretty, but that's not very often actually. I rarely dress up.
I like fashion, but not in the "omfg i need to buy those shoes, and omg this purse matches it perfectly!" sense. My closet consists of three shirts, two pairs of pants, a skirt, and a sweater, which I've had all of this since I was 14. Even my brother says my closet is quite sad, but I just don't really care. I like what I have, that's it.

I do not have pms. I've had several friends ask me if I ever get my period. There are several female behaviors that I don't have. I'm not saying "FUCK YOU, I don't get hysterical and bitch about things without giving reasons! So don't talk to me now", it's something that other people have noticed about me, and not just me fantasizing about not being a hysterical bitch every now and then. My personality just doesn't match what are said to be the "typical" woman behaviors. Which is why my sex is just completely meaningless, insignificant to me.

If I actually had been born a boy, perhaps it would have been the complete opposite, I might have been much more identified with women rather than with men, or it could be rather similar.

As said before, both sexes have their pros and their cons. I don't believe that one of them is better than the other. Once, one of my friend's grandmother told me "Why can't you be more feminine? Don't be vulgar, be the woman that you are.", I had answered that I just didn't like being a girl, and she said "You know, girls can do something that guys can't, which is the best thing in the world. Do you know what that is?" ... "Wear a skirt?". She then, disappointedly, told me it was being a mother. That hadn't even crossed my mind.
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Im a girl and nine times outta ten I'm happy and like it. sometimes I wounder what it would be like to be born a guy and although it would never happen it does seem a little easier to be a guy but no I'm not necessarily saying its easier to be one sex rather then the other cause they both have there pors and cons as you guy have already stated. We cant stereo type each sex don't be so quick to judge them -.-
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I love being a guy because

- I don't get periods
- I don't give birth
- I don't get things shoved up my vagina (I don't have a vagina, btw)
- I don't have to care about being pretty
- I don't need to shave my body regularly
- I can take my shirt off anywhere
- I am athletic
- I can be a "playa"
- I can masturbate
- I can cook
- I can drive well
- I don't need to worry about breast cancer
- I can play videogames
- I can shave my head
- I can join the military for combat roles

I hate being a guy because

- I have been called a fag
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It must suck being a girl.



XD Guys can get breast cancer BTW. Honestly IDC what gender I am.
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I think, if I were a girl my life wouldn't be much different. Maybe even worse, for the fact that girls are seen as delicate and such. It's much more easier to control them.
Many people have already confused me for a girl before. I don't take that as an insult though. Girls are beautiful. It was a little embarrassing though, just the fact that I have nothing close to boobs and a deep voice.
Being a guy isn't that great.
There's a lot more ridicule
-we are often mistaken
-it takes more for us to be accepted(for anything)
-erections. Easily visible not as easy to relieve.
More to explain, but others have pretty much filled those slots.


Gender shouldn't define a person.
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unless you have moobs skylar ;D jks.. i would love to be a guy instead off chick soo much stuff to worry about ..

But guys get accpeted way more easier than chicks cause we have bitches who bitch and guys just fit in by their likes and hobbies chicks fit in by their looks/hobbies ect...
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im transgendered... so my reponse to this thread wont fit in this box.


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You have missed the most important.

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It`s really doesnt matter to be a girl or boy!

That`s so childish when people get their gender as a top point because nobody chooses her/his gender.


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I believe that if i was born male, the only difference world be in body type, and the fact that i would be gay. I like guys and i can not stand girls. I would probally act the same and everything. People might treat me different, but I would still be me .


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If I were born a chick, I'd probably be the same: emo, depressed all the time, bi-sexual, stuff like that. It's funny, tho, people think that it's not right for guys to gay or bi, but it's totally fine for girls to be it. I say screw them. Plus, I would still love Rubix cubes!!!


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Wow so just got to this thread. You all have very valid points and coming from a family mixed between no caring if a was bi and a family who thinks its heresy i must be completely honest. I'd rather be a guy than girl, but I'd wanna be a lot different than I am. If I could be reborn, I'd rather be 5'2 or 3 and girls slim with a still somewhat muscular body. Where I still had a v and everything*not vagina but the v from muscles in that area of body* but still none the less girly figure sort of. I'd have more of a girly hairstyle. Probably like a shorter girl style down a little past my chin all the way around. I'd definitely wear hair bows again and never take off my cat ears. And I'd want a cat tail lol. I'd love to be a Lolita type :3 that's my dream self and also my dream person lol. I love that so much:3 a lot of people would criticize me for that since I would look pretty much like a girl and be a guy*and considering I'm on the football team for one of the most known highschool teams my school life would be completely different. But still I would love that. And talking about girls on there periods. You've never seen this b*tch on his days. I'll rip your throat out if u say or even look at me wrong. And girls yes do have a lot moe they have to physically endure on the sexual level and guys don't which is a plus but in my perspective guys also are by historical standards, more required to work. Men are expected to do the physical labor for the families to provide for them. But society has turned it into a sexist thing. I would do something like that our of love to allow my wife to have fun with her friends. € interesting side note, in ancient Sparta the women were renown all over the world for their physical strength. If they didn't like you and you tried to take one as your wife by force you could be one of the soldiers*who were precision killing machines by age 18* and that woman would beat your a$$. They were know for outright demolishing the men in fights. Not that's one cool chick!€ but yes. That's what I have to say here lol. And people. Don't be sexist. It's pointless to be. Cuz one day one of them spartan girls is gonna come through here other period and beat the living $hitt out of every guy around
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im transgendered... so my reponse to this thread wont fit in this box.


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*waves arms around* trangender here too...
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