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Well I went back all the way to page 3 and didn't see a topic with a similar title so here goes:

What are your takes on oral sex? Do you enjoy it a lot or little?

Personally I enjoy oral occasionally but not as much as actual sex. I also find it hard to orgasm while a girl is giving me oral too, though not impossible. I hear that girls enjoy oral sex a lot more than males do in general do, especially uncircumcised males (like me) who enjoy oral a lot less since saliva is about as good a lubricant as water is. Due to the glans being more sensitive with uncircumcised penises, it makes oral uncomfortable if done improperly though I can only speak for myself in this instance, not the entire male uncircumcised population. As for the actual thought of receiving oral goes, it's a great feeling in itself.

As for giving oral goes, there's a lot of fun in it for me and although I feel no physical pleasure, the emotional benefits and the psychological benefit of doing this is good for me too, I enjoy hearing them and feeling them move about in pleasure, it's a turn on for me too. Hell, the best thing about giving oral has to be the fact I can continue as long as my stamina will let me, which can sometimes be a lot longer than actual sex (I remember going for almost an hour once).

So yeah, opinions and general thoughts about oral sex here.
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Does receiving oral count as losing your virginity? I've been having this discussion with a friend and I don't know who's right or wrong.
As for the topic, ummm I've NEVER had sex in my life before. But receiving oral is one of the top things I want in my sexual life because it seems really enjoyable just thinking about it.
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I like oral sex, both giving and receiving. Performing oral sex can be very tiring, especially on the jaw, but it's a huge turn on for me not to mention the girl so it's worth it. I've never received any mindblowing head before, normally the sucking is accompanied by a handjob, but I enjoy it just fine. I want better head though...
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Never recieved and climaxed from it. Don't even like it that much, much rather some OTHER lips wrapped round my cock ifyouknowwhatimean.

Love giving it, though, but I love giving any pleasure, second, third, or fourth base. Only given it once though.
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I used to find oral for me pretty disgusting. It grossed me out a tad. You just hear the horror stories and shiver (i.e. toilet paper remnants). Now not so much. Currently it hasn't been particularly amazing ever but this doesn't fuss me.

As for giving oral I think I am pretty good at it (wooh something to write home about) based on partner consensus/reaction but no idea. I enjoy giving it and seeing the pleasure received from it. Also in my more lazy moments is great alternative to actual sexytime albeit the taste is a tad bleh.
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Does receiving oral count as losing your virginity? I've been having this discussion with a friend and I don't know who's right or wrong.
As for the topic, ummm I've NEVER had sex in my life before. But receiving oral is one of the top things I want in my sexual life because it seems really enjoyable just thinking about it.


I wouldn't say receiving oral counts as losing your virginity in the traditional sense, though I never actually thought about it to be honest. Before I actually received it, oral was a really exciting thought in my mind (and still is today) which is the best part about it. The thought of someone wanting to give me oral is even a better thought than someone wanting to have sex with me in a sense too as I always see oral as something closer and more special to want to give to a partner than sex is, not that sex isn't special too. Well, I hope you know what I mean anyway.

I like oral sex, both giving and receiving. Performing oral sex can be very tiring, especially on the jaw, but it's a huge turn on for me not to mention the girl so it's worth it. I've never received any mindblowing head before, normally the sucking is accompanied by a handjob, but I enjoy it just fine. I want better head though...


That's true, it can strain your tongue too but I usually fight through the fatigue for the benefit of my partner, it feels more rewarding in a way too.

Yeah that's the case here too, without it, I don't think I could climax as easy, if at all. I think the thought of actually receiving it is what makes it more enjoyable than the actual physical pleasure, anyway.

Never received and climaxed from it. Don't even like it that much, much rather some OTHER lips wrapped round my cock ifyouknowwhatimean.

Love giving it, though, but I love giving any pleasure, second, third, or fourth base. Only given it once though.


Never? Understandable, as I didn't climax the first few times I received it, it took a lot of work to finally be able to. Yeah sex is physically a lot better in the pleasure department.

It seems a lot of guys love to give it more than they love to receive it, then. I don't know of one guy I've asked who actually dislikes giving it, come to think about it.


As for giving oral I think I am pretty good at it (wooh something to write home about) based on partner consensus/reaction but no idea. I enjoy giving it and seeing the pleasure received from it. Also in my more lazy moments is great alternative to actual sexytime albeit the taste is a tad bleh.


:lol: It can be a fun alternative to sex, especially when you're not up for much movement or you have friction burns/time of month/whatever else and it can be just as satisfying as orgasm letting them experience it too. As for the taste, vaginal fluid doesn't taste of much, though I can't speak for the taste of semen. Someone told me it was a plasticy-salty taste and another said it didn't taste salty at all. Maybe it's like those jelly beans from Harry Potter, every person tastes different. That sounds weird but I said it anyway because fuck it.
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I'd prefer those jelly beans myself :). I'd say people just taste different in general. I agree of the vaginal fluid myself, it's the smell that is a tad interesting.
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lol i agree fully (plus im also uncut) haha
i like oral but most the time i dont come that way
i love giving it tho its fun and its a turn on for me to watch others have orgasms
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Oral is nice, I prefer to give a guy oral than to receive it (adding a touch of rainbow to this thread :P). Although saying that said, receiving whilst giving is a turn on for me xD
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Oral is nice, I prefer to give a guy oral than to receive it (adding a touch of rainbow to this thread :P). Although saying that said, receiving whilst giving is a turn on for me xD


A touch of rainbow? and I've never actually tried both giving and receiving at the same time so I couldn't really tell you how that is for me, though mutual masturbation is a turn on for me, especially when my partner doesn't freeze completely when she's getting off so I'm left there frustrated. It's all about both giving and receiving equally in those experiences and they can even excel sex in pleasure if done right.

I love oral. It's by far my favourite part of sex. I would guess that in terms of sex, oral probably takes up at least 65% of that time. Probably more. I don't think it's demeaning at all, if anything it's quite empowering to see your partner literally shaking and gasping and knowing that you are the one entirely responsible for their pleasure. I think it's the one time where it's extremely easy to take complete control, you can chose every little teasing motion, you're in control of speed and depth, etc. Anyway. It's both physically arousing to me, and because I enjoy seeing my partners pleasure. I would happily give up sex for oral, and I actually prefer switching between the two, it makes everything a lot more intense.


Demeaning? I never really understood why some women and even men think giving oral is demeaning, either way I agree it is empowering to know you're causing their pleasure. It's also true for me that I can control a lot more than with full sex as a tongue and jaw has a lot more you can do than with a penis which can only do so much.

If I'm good at it? I don't know. I'd obviously like to think so. I've been told by two guys it was the best they'd ever had but meh, god knows if they were just humouring me. Oral (albeit combined with prostate massage) is how I supposedly gave the last guy I slept with the strongest orgasm he ever had. I try to generally go based off their reactions, do things that make them feel good. I have a way of doing that and it generally works out well... There has only ever been one time I didn't make a guy climax from it, and after all that time (I think it was heading for about an hour...) my jaw locked... Ouch :( I also had a cold at the time, it was so sexy coughing every 30 seconds. Every other time, there hasn't been any problem with their pleasure (I thank god it's quite easy to tell if a guy is faking...)


That's true, "the best I've ever had" is uttered a lot by both males and females so it can be hard to tell whether they mean it or not. Prostate massage? I can't say I've ever had experience in that even on my own, let alone with another person doing that so not much to say there, though I have heard it works well for a really strong orgasm, I should try it some time.. You have a pretty high success rate then when it comes to oral and the time you didn't get them to climax is understandable, coughing every 30 seconds would be off putting no matter how great it was. Luckily for me a woman's never faked pleasure, I've pretty much been told when I was doing something right and when I wasn't which I think is a lot better than if they pretended to like something they didn't, because how can you learn from a mistake you don't know you're making? It's obvious when a woman fakes pleasure too, pornos are full of it .. it sounds so dry and dead, no pleasure behind it.

For receiving... I obviously love that. Who the hell doesn't like it? One of the easiest ways to guarantee instant pleasure. I've only been told once by a guy he wouldn't go down on me - incidentally that same guy that didn't climax, and there's a reason that was by far the worst and less pleasurable sexual experience I've ever had. All other lovers I've had have been more than happy to go down - it's usually been more a case of having to pull them off due to over-sensitivity. I don't think I could be in a relationship with someone who didn't completely love oral, honestly.


A guy not going down on you? I can see why that wouldn't have been a good experience in total then, I'd never think of being so selfish (or is it selfish if I actually enjoy doing it anyway?). You and I probably share the same philosophy when it comes to sex in relationships then, I don't think I could be with a girl for very long if she wasn't sexually open to doing things beyond the missionary position. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't want to be with a girl very long if she had nothing upstairs either, so it's a fine balance of the two.
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anal oral is very nice :) both giving and receiving, but especially giving :Batting Eyelashes:
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Rainbow (same sex stuff haha) oh and that happens to me alot, he just stops what he is doing as he is enjoying it to much... bo to that
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rainbow? i thought that was giving a girl a lick out on her period? haha ..
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Rainbow (same sex stuff haha) oh and that happens to me alot, he just stops what he is doing as he is enjoying it to much... bo to that


Oh I see and yes it can be a frustration, luckily the more I'm enjoying it the faster I go.

rainbow? i thought that was giving a girl a lick out on her period? haha ..


A friend once referred to that as "drinking red rum". Either way oral on a girl's period doesn't appeal to me.. unsurprisingly.
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^ lolew. I haven't heard that one before... Rainbow kisses is one thing I've heard. Meh, I've given lick outs to my girlfriends when they're on their period if they wanted it. I didn't really get bloody or anything, pretty sure they kept their tampon in .
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^ lolew. I haven't heard that one before... Rainbow kisses is one thing I've heard. Meh, I've given lick outs to my girlfriends when they're on their period if they wanted it. I didn't really get bloody or anything, pretty sure they kept their tampon in .


That could work... I mean I've fingered a girl while on her period and no blood.

Obviously I can't speak personally, but I've been told it's not something that feels particularly good when done solo (also the gross factor), and that it doesn't automatically feel good when a girl does it either, it can supposedly be incredibly uncomfortable.


The gross factor is why I'm reluctant to try it.

I always personally deemed it a no go. My ex insisted on doing it for me, he actually pretty much had to force me into it, I still think it's gross. It's incredibly good for soothing cramps though...


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I fucking knew someone would post that picture! I just expected it to be from cocks. :lol: I don't mind having sex while the woman is on her period, it's supposed to be good for the girl as well so plus plus. I do wear a condom while on her period, though once a girl didn't tell me and... blood.
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it has sounded nasty to me. But now that I have heard some people going on about it. It may be something to try one day. I can see how it can be a gift of sorts lol... for your partner. and how making them feel so good for how long have you been saying an hour?? wow.

I forced my self to read this but I am glad I did thanks for sharing.
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it has sounded nasty to me. But now that I have heard some people going on about it. It may be something to try one day. I can see how it can be a gift of sorts lol... for your partner. and how making them feel so good for how long have you been saying an hour?? wow.

I forced my self to read this but I am glad I did thanks for sharing.


Well oral isn't for everyone, people have likes and dislikes that range from anything so it's no surprise not everyone likes to give or receive oral. What do you mean when you say "for how long have you been saying an hour??"
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Well oral isn't for everyone, people have likes and dislikes that range from anything so it's no surprise not everyone likes to give or receive oral. What do you mean when you say "for how long have you been saying an hour??"

that you have had Oral Sex for close to a hour. I did not know if the people that said they did it for that long are joking or not
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Oh I see, well I don't really time it specifically but the longest I've lasted for with oral is about 40mins - 1 hour though it takes a lot out of you, so it's not entirely impossible that someone could go that long.
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