See I don't even know what I want, I just want to look good - that's why I'm not even sure about whether I specifically want to wear that dress. I want to look back at photos and not cringe

My style tends to be simple, though... I want to look, I don't know, 'beautiful' is far too presumptuous but I'd rather aim for something like rather than... well, overly sexy or slutty or 'look at me'. More classy, I guess. If that makes any sense

I think you all know what I look like if you have any suggestions...
Anyway. My hair will probably be down and either in soft waves or straight, because I hate the feel of curls with all that hairspray, and they fall out anyway, and upstyles.... meh. I don't feel like having it up, I guess.
Make up: I hate showy make up. It'll be really well applied that's all I know, lol. I'm not doing it myself though, but I'll probably focus more so on my eyes, though with more natural shadows if I do use it. Maybe smokey eyes but nothing... well, too much. I hate the feel of lipgloss so my lips will probably be fairly natural too, though I could handle lip stick or lip stain, probably more reds than pinks though.
I've no idea about what kind of bag I want, though a clutch is likely because it's nighttime and I don't want to be lugging a massive bag around. what kind of clutch, I don't know, but I prefer structured ones.
Shoe wise... I was thinking of something like burgandy/dark red, or perhaps some kind of rich dark purple. I could go with nude, but I don't want it to be plain.
I don't really know. That's my general preferences. I still don't know whether to get a different dress, but I just haven't really found anything I particularly love.
I know. I'm so fussy. thanks you guys <3