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[lonliness_impending]

So I have personally read a couple posts on feminism getting bashed and it angers me, but I assume that it is because people are uneducated on the matter and are following the easy bigited and sexist route of just pushing down on a minority. and repressing the underdog.

you guys seem to be very open minded and willing to hear out peoples sexual dilimmeas and questions about multipule different genders so I hope that you can be open minded about this and hear me out

as a feminist male my view on feminism will be different than those of a female, gay male, bisexual female etc.

We may not always see the power that gender roles play in our society. the number of rapes that still occur- that shit is like iron age problems, you would think our fucking close minded society could be less evil (look up the evolution of rape if you are interested its scary. the rape gene seems to have evolved in this society because of the acceptance of rape and genetic reproductive factors of it in the past)

but i digress
I consider myself a first wave feminist, therefore what we need to create in society is an equal oppornunity society for future women and men to REMOVE EXPECTATIONS of women to be innocent nurtures and men to be agressive reproducers.... A bianary that is so engraned into society that it may go unnoticed to some. We need to break down this idea that men are agressive sexual beings that make all of the money to support the family and have all of the sex drive. Angela Carter has a great novel the bloody chamber that breaks down these bianaries and newly addresses sexuality and desires of females in a form of fairytales definately check it out.


I guess this thread was a little bit of a rant, but mostly intended to be informative for people, and to start a open conversation about gender roles in our society and how we can remove them...

[Algernon]

Blasé, pretentious, boring and badly written.

I consider myself a first wave feminist

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A bianary

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As for feminism and women's movements: there is only one good women’s movement, and I’m deeply involved in it. That is the movement where their back arches up and they hold on to the top of the bed and their eyes roll back. This is the most important women’s movement and everyone should be involved in it.

[O Brave New World]

If you were a woman, OP, I would say, "Shut up and make me a sandwich."

As for feminism and women's movements: there is only one good women’s movement, and I’m deeply involved in it. That is the movement where their back arches up and they hold on to the top of the bed and their eyes roll back. This is the most important women’s movement and everyone should be involved in it.

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[Let_Love_Bleed_Red]

And you people wonder why women think you all are self absorbed assholes?!?!

[finality]

And you people wonder why women think you all are self absorbed assholes?!?!

Women need to stop being so oversensitive and stop making sweeping generalizations about men.

[Let_Love_Bleed_Red]

Im not overly sensitive but they still don't need to make asshole comments like that and yes I know women do too but I don't think they should either!

[Let_Love_Bleed_Red]

And if the majority of the male population didn't sound like sexist pigs and make females sound like they are only a piece of ass then women wouldnt be so "overly sensitive" and the wouldn't make sweeping generalizations of men

[finality]

And if the majority of the male population didn't sound like sexist pigs then women wouldn't make sweeping generalizations of men

lol

[Let_Love_Bleed_Red]

I honestly don't care either way the only thing that irritates me is when guys make us sound like we are only for There for one thing....their pleasure. I like respect I like being thought of like I have a brain etc.

[finality]

I honestly don't care either way the only thing that irritates me is when guys make us sound like we are only for There for one thing....their pleasure. I like respect I like being thought of like I have a brain etc.

I don't think there are really many men that genuinely think like that, it's usually more of a bravado sort of thing.

[Reflection]

All right you women, keep quiet! This is a man's conversation.

[Let_Love_Bleed_Red]

I don't think there are really many men that genuinely think like that, it's usually more of a bravado sort of thing.

True I've met some who don't but I know A LOT who really do

[lonliness_impending]

Blasé, pretentious, boring and badly written.


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As for feminism and women's movements: there is only one good women’s movement, and I’m deeply involved in it. That is the movement where their back arches up and they hold on to the top of the bed and their eyes roll back. This is the most important women’s movement and everyone should be involved in it.

badly written yes... sorry i dont have time to profread

ugm... a binary? is 2 defined different ways
.... way to be pretentious

dude its probably better if you just dont talk, or expect to be single for life

[lonliness_impending]

Women need to stop being so oversensitive and stop making sweeping generalizations about men.

did you even read the part about equal playing fields... and thanks for supporting that steriotype

[Let_Love_Bleed_Red]

did you even read the part about equal playing fields... and thanks for supporting that steriotype

Well they are kind of right women jump to easily to place blame...and I admit I did to....

[lonliness_impending]

Well they are kind of right women jump to easily to place blame...and I admit I did to....

but to make a society without gender roles (an equal playing field- a goal of first wave feminism) you cant say that women are oversensative, its the same as saying men are sexual offendors

[Let_Love_Bleed_Red]

But some are on both accounts though and with society today being majority conformist we will never be seen as equal we may try but it will never happen

[O Brave New World]

I don't understand what more these womyn want. They have the right to vote; they can hold public office; they can go into any field that a man can go into (except combat roles in the military). They say they want to be treated like a man, but seriously do you (womyn) really want that? We (men) verbally and physically abuse each other and if you cry it only gets worse. If you want to be like us, you are going to have to embrace stoicism and sadism because we are not going to change. If you ask me, you are better off in your world of ponies, princesses, and cupcakes. In conclusion: deal with your gender role because it could be a shit-ton worse, you could be a woman in some Muslim country.

[Let_Love_Bleed_Red]

Ummm what more how about RESPECT asshole! Are you serious? And no I don't want complete equality with you assface I just want respect which is also what most women would like if you would get off your damn high horse it'd be simple to do.

And I'm pretty sure you have spell check learn to use it before you make yourself look even more like a dumbass

[lonliness_impending]

But some are on both accounts though and with society today being majority conformist we will never be seen as equal we may try but it will never happen

sadly thats probably true. Same thing with the racism card tho. Race will always be something that people take into effect. like me even trying to understand "blackness" to be more aware of it and less closeminded can be racist or offensive... like if i ask my roommate why they dont wash their hair everyday who is african american is seen as racist even if i am making a consious effort to be openminded its still offensive.

Malcomb X said that in order to understand blackness you have to understand whiteness. I couldnt agree with that more

Ummm what more how about RESPECT asshole! Are you serious? And no I don't want complete equality with you assface I just want respect which is also what most women would like if you would get off your damn high horse it'd be simple to do.

And I'm pretty sure you have spell check learn to use it before you make yourself look even more like a dumbass go tirl

you go girl!!!!

i am soo attracted to iLoveMyPetey<3 right now