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Reasons Why You Start Crying


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I shed a single tear because of how pathetic this is.


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I cry because CJ won't love me back :(


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Cause onions are a b*tch to cut.

 

Not much of a cry-er. Don't really judge others if they do, most pretty are pretty emotionally soft.


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i cry every day almost and the reason being my family are a bunch of backwards imbread hillbillies who have there heads so far up there own asses that shit comes out of there mouth more often than hot air does they talk about homosextuals and people of different nationallities without even giving a second thought about how anyone else feals even though they have a lesbian for a daughter, and did I mention that they are a bunch of religiose nuts


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Nothing cuz i have no tears left....


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Nothing cuz i have no tears left....

Well with functioning tear ducts, I'm sure you can create some more m8


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I cry when me and my girlfriend argue and she says those heat of the moment things like "I never loved you anyway!" or whatever :P

 

I sometimes feel like I need to cry randomly but can't! hate that. It makes you feel so frustrated


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I haven't cried in years, got nothing to cry about I suppose. I don't really judge others who cry, unless Its really pathetic reason. Seeing girls cry makes me feel sad and make me want to help.. even if they're complete strangers. Haha.
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This is months old, but oh well.

 

How often do you cry? Do you remember the last time you cried?

I actually used to utterly despise my crying. I looked at crying as a form of weakness within myself. But I urged others to cry. It was odd. I hadn't really cried since my cousins funeral back in December of 2011, but the past few months I've been having frequent anxiety attacks and paranoia episodes and those bring me to sobs. Yesterday.
What are the main reasons why you start shedding tears? Do you shed them easily?

Anxiety and paranoid filled moments bring me to tears. No, I still have that tears=weakness mantra running through my head.
Are you loud or silent when you cry (when alone, or with people)?

Silent
If you're in a public situation and you feel like you're about to cry, do you let it out, or can you hold it in?

I hold it in. No one but my sister is allowed to see me cry, and I have to be in a REALLY bad mood for her to.
Do you prefer crying with someone, or in the comfort of something else?
No
If you're female, how do you react when a guy cries? What do you do?

I'm not good when anyone cries. I'm the friend that awkwardly pats your back is you weep. Men, in my mind, don't usually cry. I think I've seen my dad cry once.
Do you think it's less manly, less 'attractive'?
Eh. Not if it's for reasons I can deem appropriate to cry for. Your mom is in the hospital, I'm here. Your dream car has been discontinued, grow up, bro.


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Last time I cried? probably 2 weeks ago, i remember why... 
its just that feeling of everything caving in isn't it.
Like you managed to build this intricate line of deceit to make yourself think that you're ok.
and then it just collapses in one go.
all of a sudden..its the fallout that hurts the most.


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Last time I cried? probably 2 weeks ago, i remember why... 
its just that feeling of everything caving in isn't it.
Like you managed to build this intricate line of deceit to make yourself think that you're ok.
and then it just collapses in one go.
all of a sudden..its the fallout that hurts the most.

I know the feeling unfortunehateley. That feeling as if the moon is waxing to nothing, the pit you dug yourself has finally consumed all you're hope, the torrent of pain and misunderstanding twists you away into the black hole of dispear. 


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How often do you cry? Do you remember the last time you cried?

Not at all that often. It was just the other day..It was horrible. 
What are the main reasons why you start shedding tears? Do you shed them easily?

When I'm mad sometimes ill start crying but i won't let anyone see them. It depends on what mood I'm in. 
Are you loud or silent when you cry (when alone, or with people)?

Mostly, I'm silent. but I try really hard not to cry in front of people.
If you're in a public situation and you feel like you're about to cry, do you let it out, or can you hold it in?

I hold it in as best as i can or i hide my face and fight the tears like crazy. 
Do you prefer crying with someone, or in the comfort of something else?
I prefer to not cry infront of anyone, but i don't mind if i cry while listening to music. 
If you're female, how do you react when a guy cries? What do you do?

If I know them well enough, I would hug them and say it's gonna be okay.. If I don't know them i would kinda just stand there all awkardly and stuff. 
Do you think it's less manly, less 'attractive'?
It's not necessarily less manly. it's not really less attractive either. But, some people are kinda ugly when they cry.. just saying.  


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How often do you cry? Do you remember the last time you cried?

Not often at all.

What are the main reasons why you start shedding tears? Do you shed them easily?

When I cry it's because I'm pissed, sad, and more often because I'm frustrated.


Are you loud or silent when you cry (when alone, or with people)?

I'm quiet because I don't wan people to know I'm crying. I hate being accused of looking for pity, so I don't cry loud at all.

If you're in a public situation and you feel like you're about to cry, do you let it out, or can you hold it in?

I can hold it in really good. I've only ever cried once in public and it was silent tears that no one noticed.
Do you prefer crying with someone, or in the comfort of something else?

When I'm crying, if I'm with a really close friend, I want to be hugged. Hugging makes me feel loved and so I'll feel better faster.

If you're female, how do you react when a guy cries? What do you do?

I'm surprised. I've only ever seen one guy cry, and it was my dad. But then I hug them.

Do you think it's less manly, less 'attractive'?
No. It just means that they have feelings too.

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How often do you cry? Do you remember the last time you cried?

Not very often but when I do it's on private or in bed and unless you are drunk I think everyone remembers those moments where they cry.


What are the main reasons why you start shedding tears? Do you shed them easily?
No, I don't shed tears easily. My reasons for crying is either having a breakdown because certain people are shouting harsh comments or phrases at me that touch on really personal, private issues but in general I have been scolded long enough and hard enough to become quite tough. Someone could call me a fat bitch to my face and tell me to die and I wouldn't get upset about it. Another common reason is when I have care about someone and they either hurt me or the thought of something bad happening to them keeps swirling around in my head. Oh and I am the only one who cries when I see other people crying about issues you can relate to...no? Okay that just makes me weird.

Are you loud or silent when you cry (when alone, or with people)?
Most of the time silent but there have been a few occasions where something bad has realy happened and I lose control of myself >.>


If you're in a public situation and you feel like you're about to cry, do you let it out, or can you hold it in?

Hold it in bro, hold it in.


Do you prefer crying with someone, or in the comfort of something else?
Preferably by myself but sometimes it's good to have someone around though the problem with that is they say something even if they don't know what. Generally when I cry the last thing I want is someone to tell me things will be okay and that they understand, it's infuriating aha and I would prefer it if they just listened to my problem first...ALL OF IT... before commenting.  

If you're female, how do you react when a guy cries? What do you do?

Not a lot of guys have cried around me before and it really depends if they are a friend of not. I tend to just ask and leave them alone if they' sniffling however if they're letting it all out that's a different story, especially if they're a mate aha. I tend to listen and let them let it all out before saying something even if it doesn't really work for them because it's something I kind of believe in. Aha I've found that out in the past but every guy is different, you get the ones that you have a good chat with and the ones who want to be left alone.

 

Do you think it's less manly, less 'attractive'?

Not at all, if a man is capable of crying in front of people I personally see that more as a strength thing then a weakness. The whole "It's not manly for a man to cry" stereotype or social expectation is a load of horse poo. 


PS. I think I made a few grammar mistakes.

 


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How often do you cry? Do you remember the last time you cried?

8 years ago when my father was shot twice in the abdomen in an alleyway... with me as an eyewitness. Yeah, that's right, batman style.

 

What are the main reasons why you start shedding tears? Do you shed them easily?

It's very very very very hard to make me show the slightest bit of emotion. I've been wronged more than you could think, but these days I've been able to develop myself to be very intra-sadistic, and rather enjoy my own pain. It's quite nice, but every one of my psychologists says it's extremely unhealthy. 


Are you loud or silent when you cry (when alone, or with people)?

When I once thought crying was something that could help me, let alone affect me, I did it silently. Silence is like a second nature to me.


If you're in a public situation and you feel like you're about to cry, do you let it out, or can you hold it in?

I've always held it in, I believe all emotions, even depression, have value, so I like to hold onto them, and use them for my own benefit. (The only exception is love, as it's quite an ignorant stupid thing)


Do you prefer crying with someone, or in the comfort of something else?

I prefer not crying at all. I prefer to be in the loneliest most distant state possible, to remind myself of the desolation in which I normally reside in.

 

Do you think it's less manly, less 'attractive'?

I think it's downright destructive. Everything one does to develop themselves is undone by expressing emotions, especially the more extreme ones (Sadness, Anger, Love). Eventually your feelings will swallow you whole and take over your thoughts, destroying any ability to be rational. That's why Sociopath's exist. Hatred is the only good emotion to express, it helps to put you in the opposite direction, towards being emotionless, which is good, so express hatred alot.


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Oh, fuck off.


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Oh, fuck off.

Way ahead of ya. Was having a rather bad night. My dad stole my grandma in laws wedding ring while she was asleep, she has brain cancer. I haven't been feeling so good recently. Ill stop. I'm sorry. I'm very sorry.


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Dude, stop excusing yourself for everything :lol:


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Well, I can't remember all of the specific questions, so... I think last time was when a relationship with a girl I was feeling really hopeful about didn't turn out. Sometimes I cry because I am lonely or depressed. In the past I have spent a lot of time crying. Mostly about relationships. I am very emotional, and I'm not afraid to admit it. I feel it's unfair for people to take a negative view of males crying. We are all human after all. We all have feelings. Why shouldn't we cry? We as a society have far too many hangups, I think. Crying is normal and natural. Sometimes it feels good to cry.


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