Do any girls have this issue, when everything in the relationship is completely and utterly perfect, you both love each other so much and *Boom* honey moon phase is over. I've been with this guy now for 4 or so years this guy knows all about my history and I told him everything from start to finish and he the same thing.
I get overly sensitive when being accused of cheating and just to make it clear I did not. In fact I do not like the idea of cheating on anyone unless they cheat on you and then the relationship to me is pretty much dead. I think its just disrespect to the person and plus my mom's on and off again boyfriend always, constantly accuses her of cheating to the point where she corrects her own behavior now with everyone.
Well I got mad since I have a slow temper and until it hits me sharply I don't think about it. He said "I thought you where cheating on me and I got so worried I had an anxiety attack" . Okay I have been nothing but faithful and loyal if I go out with someone to the bar or hang out with people I tell him right away so there is no confusion about it later on. (I am super paranoid of what happened to my mom will happen to me) so I kind of sent him a mini nasty message once my temper registered.
"I've been nothing but faithful to you and ask anyone I do not do that, I think cheating is wrong and I thought you trusted me and that's showing you do not really trust me at all and I'm allowed to hang out with whoever I want without thinking, that you may just think I'm out there banging other dudes".
So on and so on.
I was just wondering if any ladies on here or even men where accused of cheating on their significant other and did not and how'd it make you feel, did I take the right approach because I was mad I think I was a little over the top and I don't know how to delete it (oops). Do you think unless there is significant proof a healthy relationship should even have those issues?