I am, technically, a girl; but inside I feel like I want to be a guy. The odd part is that I enjoy being a girl and I still am more attracted to guys than girls. After some thinking lately though I've realized that I really want to live as a gay guy (plz dont judge) but I still want to be a girl and someday have kids of my own. I can't figure out what I want to do when it comes to making such a transition and I really don't know how to get there. I guess I could use some help and advice, please help me!
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Who, Or What, Am I?Gender and Sexuality
Posted 29 March 2013 - 07:05 AM
Posted 29 March 2013 - 07:20 AM
Posted 29 March 2013 - 10:06 AM
coming from someone who might actually be transitioning sometime, i wouldn't recommend it for your situation. seriously. you're just a bit of a tomboy.
Posted 29 March 2013 - 05:37 PM
Thanks, and gook luck
Posted 07 May 2013 - 08:32 PM
You are a person you should love you for who yu are. gender is a block of the mind. it dosnt matter if you love someone you love them if not the who gives a fuck. you are you and no one is the same
Love and hope
Posted 17 May 2013 - 07:19 PM
This reply is probably too late...but this doesn't sound like a 'tomboy' at all.
What you said kind of reminds me of how I felt a few months ago. I've gone through phazes of feeling like a boy, and thought I was strange because there were still things tying me to being a girl. I found out recently that it's perfectly ok, and happens to more people than you'd think. Bigender, or gender fluid.
You don't HAVE to choose. You can be either, or neither, or both, whenever and however. I feel like a boy most of the time, but I dress like a girl most of the time.
As for sexuality, I don't think it necessarily has anything to do with the gender someone identifies with. eg. there's no point saying, I feel like a guy BUT I like guys, because the two...in my opinion, aren't related. Attraction to a gender =/= the gender you identify with.
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