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My Life Is Hell...
#1
Posted 04 May 2013 - 03:53 PM
#2
Posted 04 May 2013 - 03:58 PM
Do not die darling. taking your own life doesn't help the situation at all. Just talk to someone you trust to give you good advice ..
#3
Posted 04 May 2013 - 04:06 PM
Ok, so I refrained from posting on your other topic but because you created ANOTHER one that is just as cryptic as the other one and more hard to read I will reply to this one as best I can.
Abuse is a hard thing. I do not know if you were physically or mentally abused(or both) by your male parental unit but some clarification on what happened in your past would help. Knowing when and why your dad abused you, when it started and when it stopped would be nice. Please try and be more clear in explaining the situation.
Coming from a home where physical abuse did not really happen means I am not best for advice on that matter. All I can say is to get away from the people abusing you, or call the police on them.
I really cannot tell what all is going on with your post. it's jumbled up information that looks like attention whoring because of the multi-posted topics. Please use some grammar and punctuation to help us better understand what is wrong as well as offer advice
#4
Posted 04 May 2013 - 05:52 PM
Well, sweetie, um...from what I could tell, you're living with your grandparents and your sister...? Your sister being the one who wants you dead...? Um, sorry about that...that's not really a great thing to have your sister thinking of you...but, um, in my experience, kindness is ALWAYS returned in one way or another...try and be sweet to your sister, maybe for a month or so, do what nice sisters do...trust me, she should be the loving sister she's supposed to be if you do this...
Plus, you should confide in your grandparents. If your grandfather is on his feet and everything, you should tell him how you feel about your sister, and what she's doing to you. When other people have awareness of how you feel...it can really help the way other people treat you...
Also, you mentioned you're getting psychiatric care? It's pretty expensive...um, I have a hard time believing a few things you say about this depressing life of yours...? Because obviously if your grandparent's health is so bad that one has almost died...I would assume their bills would be shooting through the roof, and there's no money to pay for psychiatric care for someone who thinks they have depression. Which would be cheaper to take pills for. Not to pay a whole doctor for.
#5
Posted 04 May 2013 - 07:05 PM
#6
Posted 04 May 2013 - 08:15 PM
I do not know about everyone else on here but regardless to what you post, I would never worry about you. I dont even know you. This is one of the great things about the internet. You can tell people your problems, sometimes get good answers from those people. The awesome thing about those people is they do not know you, we can offer advice and help. But you will never catch me(or many others) worrying about some random chick we saw in a topic on a dying "emo" web site.
Now, thats not to say we do not care what happens to you. Personally I like to see people fix things and move on as I did. But the only way any of us can help is for you to sit down and write out EXACTLY what is wrong. might be a lot so use a word document program to correct spelling and what not so we can read it and offer advice.
Now, because you are here and you have my full attention(as well as several others) appease us by giving a little detail.
#7
Posted 05 May 2013 - 02:35 AM
keep strong and never give in, never back down <3
#8
Posted 05 May 2013 - 03:28 AM
Get. yourself. some. help.
Do you think posting these problems on this site when you're feeling your worst will really, really help? nobody on this site is qualified in any way to give you the help you need here, let alone diagnose you as being 'depressed' or anything, The best anyone here can do is give you emotional support, tell you it'll be okay, and tell you to go and get yourself some help from a professional who can physically see you, talk to you about your problems and figure out how exactly your life needs to change to improve your mental health.
You need to find a good friend, a confidante who you can talk to when you're at your lowest. Not someone you can constantly complain to and drag down because noone wants to be a talking post for someone who seems to have a million and one problems, but someone who can understand you have issues at home and who will make themselves available to you if you really, really need someone there. A decent friend who cares can do the world of good.
Do you have a school counsellor or health person? Even just talk to your teacher, or a member of staff you feel will be compassionate. Find somebody who can actually make a difference to your life as none of us can.
And I DO understand, I do sympathise with you, especially as a young adolescent life can get very, very difficult at times when family create problems, but you WILL get out of there and you will improve your life if you keep at it, and visualise the end goal of you making something of your life despite problems in your past, and believe me I know.
Make a goal - whether it's academic, wanting to go to college and study a field, or simply to finish school and get a job and save up and move out, make a feasible goal and focus on it, stick to it and make plans for when the time comes, no matter how many years in the future. I don't know how old you are but i'm guessing the 13-15 mark, the years go so very quickly between the ages of 13 and 18 and you're thrown into life, moving out of your childhood home, getting a job etc. If you have your goal set, you can start planning towards it and it can lift you mentally because you know that eventually, things will get better thanks to your own hard work.
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