Everyone has this fantasy idea that spooning or cuddling is one of the cutest thing to do in a relationship/with friends and a good example of this is seen in memes or like one of those photo's with some inspirational quote on it that's related to love. We see heaps of these with loved up couples hugging/cuddling/spooning and all is merry but is it just me or can it be the most uncomfortable thing ever? Is there a correct way of doing it?
I remember when I first "snuggled" was on a movie date and the seats had arms that were retractable so we could stretch out on the spare seats next to us. It was cute but unfortunately I felt really uncomfortable because the embrace was really awkward, I felt like I was leaning on him too much and it was just a disaster. I also notice this when I am hugging a stuffed toy or my pillow when I'm sleeping (4eva alone) that i don't know where to put my arms without feeling uncomfortable. Like if it was a person I would be inhaling a mouthful full of hair and omg it would be more unpleasant than cuddly.
I'm just wondering if you guys have your own way of snuggling/spooning that is comfortable and if you've had any weird experiences. Like another one that I often think about when I'm spooning with a guy is if they get a hard on and how awkward that would be...you get my point.
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Hugs, Cuddles, Spooning
#1
Posted 07 October 2013 - 05:49 PM
#2
Posted 08 October 2013 - 11:53 AM
I agree with LionJess. When you are with someone and you like being with them, its never really awkward. If you get uncomfortable, you just find a new position.
I love, for example, when me and my ex would cuddle, his skin was naturally cool and mine is warm. Kinda hot, actually. so it balanced out, and I loved that.
My hair is always getting in the way. When I would lean over to kiss him, my hair would get caught up in between our lips and get in his mouth. It gets annoying sometimes, but I still loved cuddling with him..
#3
Posted 08 October 2013 - 12:14 PM
I was never able to cuddle. i always got too hot and would DiE if it continued longer than 10 min Xo
#4
Posted 08 October 2013 - 01:22 PM
This guy makes some very interesting points from a guys perspective.
#5
Posted 08 October 2013 - 02:19 PM
This guy makes some very interesting points
That's a very "interesting" way to spell retarded. I want to give that guy's face an acid bath.
#6
Posted 10 October 2013 - 09:46 AM
That's a very "interesting" way to spell retarded. I want to give that guy's face an acid bath.
Well, he kinda looks like Amelio.
#7
Posted 13 October 2013 - 06:15 PM
To be honest, I don't think there's much better than cuddling up with someone. I find it's more intimate than anything else really. But then again, that's just my personal opinion.
Although if I'm honest, with the guy I'm with, we just sorta fit, so it's not awkward or anything...I suppose it just depends really, but I can understand where the OP is coming from in a way... but yeah, cuddles are awesome if with the right person.
I actually hate having people in my personal space usually, unless it's someone I really trust. xD
#8
Posted 19 October 2013 - 03:19 PM
Yeh I love spooning and the like, but like many others have said I tend to get really hot really quickly :\ Also, because I'm like 6ft 3 and always see people smaller than me I'm nearly always the big spoon... I WANT TO BE CUGGLED TOO
I'm a big softy really, talk a good game when I'm chatting someone up, but then after we've been dating a few days I'm all like, "NOOO I just want to cuddle :("
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