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I had a really akward moment today one of my x's said theay wanna get to know me again but whean I asked him a few mounths back he dident want to know! And I don't know what to do all I said was I'll think about it
What do I do?
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They're an ex for a reason.


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Hmm. It sounds like maybe he feels different now than he did back then.
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Thanks but I still don't know what to do
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Don't give him the day of light


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That kinda helps but I still think of him and theam I just cry
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Like Alex says: ignore him. You broke up for a reason.

Now I must be wise and follow my own and Alex's advice x/
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You obviously broke up for a reason, and even if you are still emotionally attached in some way, no-one is ever worth your tears. You're better off cutting off all contact, and completely removing them from your life, and enjoy the present and future. Living in the past, means you're going to miss out on whats happening now. So, ignore him, go out with your friends and cheer up. Relationships aren't the be all and end all. Yes, it does hurt, but with time anything can heal and get better. 

My advice is just that, advice. Whether you choose to accept it or not, really is down to you. This is the internet deary, people are just going to tell you what they would do in your situation. Seeing as you haven't given any information at all, he sounds like a jerk, that you're better off without. Don't put yourself through it again. You can most likely do about a thousand times better. 

So smile and enjoy life whilst you're still alive to live it. 


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ok ill take thatr in mind


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I think  its normal. I just went through a simliar situation. I ran into my ex a few months ago. We had a baby together, he just left. I moved on, got engaged.  However we never spoke since. We met face to face he said hi, gave me a smile. A year ago, after he got out of jail  I left him for my fiancee. At the time  I was angry with him and yet a year and few months. I couldn't look or talk to him. From my experience it was grief. Unresolved emotions. I think you may have felt that, its okay to feel for him. Sometimes its ok to feel the loss but its not good to go backwards.  Your eyes are at the front of ur head not at the back of your skull.

 

Take it for what it is and only move forward not back to where you've been.


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