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Posted 14 June 2014 - 01:28 PM
We broke up a year and a bit a go, and it did not end nicely - mostly on his part, by that point I just wanted out and away from his shit. We haven't spoken since and I didn't do this last year (was still a bit fresh) but I've been thinking about him recently and he's still in my online calendar, so his name was on every screen I own today as a birthday reminder.
I dont care if he talks back, I dont even live near him anymore, but we were together almost 4 years, and we both caused each other a lot of grief, and it kinda feels like the nice thing to do?
I dont know. any thoughts?
Posted 15 June 2014 - 03:27 PM
I think, maybe you should wish him happy birthday. Who knows, he may want to talk back but not know how to. It could be what he's waiting for.
Or he might not, but at least you tried. And there is no harm in trying!
You could even end up being friends, it's not like anything bad can come from it seeing how you live quite far apart, but yeah. Just do it, you'll probably regret it if you don't.
Posted 08 July 2014 - 03:39 PM
No. I don't think so I think you were just being nice!
Posted 03 August 2014 - 03:40 PM
It's your choice.
I would say it depended on how he treated you. Was he an abuser? If yeah, then I wouldn't but if he wasn't then go ahead and do it.
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