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[kmartino82610]

Apparently Im not too bad looking. However, I always feel like a girl in the backround. I want to be the one who stands out. How can I ensure people always notice me... In a good way?

[PeppermintxKiss]

Just change something, maybe get a hair cut, or wear brighter clothing. 

But remember, with being noticed, there will be the bad times aswell.... I mean, popularity isn't everything but if it's something you want go for it. 

 

 

Also... maybe you just need to be a more positive and outgoing person, reach out to people, be loud, be heard, so they have to notice you're there. 

I guess it's hard to advise you because you didn't give much information. 

[kmartino82610]

I dont want to be popular by any means just the one people notice. What would you like to know. And im currently actually growing my hair out for sonethibg different. And just started wearing some different stuff.

[PeppermintxKiss]

All you got to remember, is even though you are changing how you look, don't change who you are, and it's easy to get lost. 

I guess, what I meant earlier was the more attention you have, the more it will grow. 

 

You want one person to notice? well make them notice, go up to them and start a conversation. Talk to them. That, is genuinely the best way to get someone to notice you, because how can you not notice someone who has taken the step to strike conversation, no one notices the people who stay in the shadows, and don't speak. 

[kmartino82610]

I wont ever lose myself because I have before and Im never going back. But we are both older so seeing them to start a conversation is an issue.

[PeppermintxKiss]

If you can't have a conversation with someone, they will never notice you. So if having a conversation with them is an issue, you might aswell just find someone else to get attention from if I'm brutally honest.