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I have a queston... um my gf and I are always doing it like bunnies you know like sex all the time. And we hardly do anything but have sex. What do I do to tell her I like the sex but I don't just want sex but to get to know her howndo i tell her without hurting her feelings?

Why don't you maybe arrange to do things outside of the bedroom, ask her out to dinner, go for a walk together, etc. It shouldn't hurt her feelings if you were just open with her and you told her how you're feeling either, I know if I were sleeping with a guy, if I really liked him I'd be happy if he told me he wanted to get to know me on an personal/emotional level and not just a physical one. What you want is a positive thing and if she's genuinely interested in a relationship with you, she should be happy that you feel that way.
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^ BDSM porn and erotica is usually incredibly unrealistic or just downright abusive, most of it is pretty terrifying. Not a good example at all for anyone looking to try it, tbh. :lol: It's actually probably more useful to check out stuff from informational websites.

Like I said, I have no idea. :') I just assumed like all things, you need to do your research via books and film.

I'm a film student, OKAY.
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lol I would never look at porn for ideas I'll pick up a cosmo more so then look at that for information and then read it lightly. I guess I can think of it...I tried something like that with a three some. Roleplaying and getting tied up so I just wanna go to the next level and I just don't know what to buy and the sex shop has so many choices....but after talking to my ex who was into the whole fetish scene but he kind of scared me cause he was into riding crops and stuff but I also know a couple who liked the whole blood-letting thing...but it all seems dangerous and but fun in away. Just kind of wanna spice up our sex life and not sure how to go about doing it x) so guess I'm looking for tips and ideas.
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You're not going to get a 'how to' list. :)

Jessticles doesn't know what she's talking about.

Here's your list of things: You need nutella, strawberries and cream, a can opener, a whisk and some rope.

This is how seriously you should take advice from the internet.
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You need nutella

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Oh huh I thought this was an ask sex questions forum...I am asking questions.
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Anyways I was joking. If anyone needs advice on this stuff though they can come to me. I will give educational and valid information on this topic.
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^On the topic you were just asking advice on? Or sex in general? If so.. bwahaha.
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Oh god I could imagine that "Sex 101: Condoms stop you feeling anything, never use them."
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Hahaha anyways aren't we getting off topic. Next sex question.
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A penis.


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Well she's probably caught more STDs than I have pokémon so there's a lot of 'experience' there. 


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I only read part of this and felt the need to ask this. If you've had sex with someone and didnt really feel much of anything(not that I'm steril) but it took me almost 7 hours in the bed my first time.... She was enjoying it to the very end apparently cuz she was on top at that point and still having fun with it but is that bad? I've never asked but I really wanna know. It always takes me a really really long time in bed to get anything.
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I only read part of this and felt the need to ask this. If you've had sex with someone and didnt really feel much of anything(not that I'm steril) but it took me almost 7 hours in the bed my first time.... She was enjoying it to the very end apparently cuz she was on top at that point and still having fun with it but is that bad? I've never asked but I really wanna know. It always takes me a really really long time in bed to get anything.

7 hours? :lol: I think someone's exaggerating just a little bit. But no, it's not strange to not feel anything when you're first having sex. You just need to find the right way to do things, some people are really picky when it comes to pleasure and you may be one of them. Try being in control yourself, try new positions etc. and really get into it. My first time lasted longer than I wanted it to, it was mostly the inexperience and shyness that caused it.

 

You may also be gay, so try turning her over and calling her Gary, see if that does anything for ya. 


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Is "squirting" or "female ejaculation" supposed to be attractive? just looking for opinions, Some think its gross some things its a turn on. Bored so decided to see opinons. ^_^


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^Neutral thing.


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No I wasn't exaggerating. 3 to ten lol. And I'm bi. Or we'll. wore like idc. I don't have a preference, to me it's the person not the gender. And now that I tried the other positins thing it worked. Porn helps nothing. Never do what they do is my advice to my self. Or at least not for me. It does nothing at all. Now I'm wondering how it would be to go with a guy. Yaoi. *im an anime nerd*but I heard that it can be either paint full or amazing. But never a definite answer? So anyone there to help?
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 Now I'm wondering how it would be to go with a guy. Yaoi. *im an anime nerd*but I heard that it can be either paint full or amazing. But never a definite answer? So anyone there to help?

are you asking about anal?


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Is "squirting" or "female ejaculation" supposed to be attractive? just looking for opinions, Some think its gross some things its a turn on. Bored so decided to see opinons. ^_^



Most of the guys I've asked about it treated it like sort of a novelty but were pretty indifferent towards it. I figure sex is messy anyway so that would be just adding more to the mess. Which is probably hardly an issue at the end of the day with all the other bodily fluids flying around.
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Yes
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